Relationship Flags
Respecting your boundaries is an important part of this kind of relationship.
What is a healthy relationship?
Taylor Swift’s favourite number.
What is 13?
This can be taken away if they change their mind, and given only when they’re conscious and sober.
What is consent?
“I was screaming,” this to “all the magic we made. And bring on all the pretenders.”
What is “Long Live”?
They need to know where you’re going and what you’re doing all the time.
What is a red flag?
Taylor Swift said she was up very late writing the songs that make up this album, hence its title.
What is Midnights?
When there’s a lot of people around, if a situation is happening, people are less likely to intervene.
What is a bystander?
“Players gonna play, play, play, play, play. And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate.”
What is “Shake It Off”?
You express your thoughts, feelings and opinions without being afraid of judgement.
What is a green flag?
The songs she owns.
What is (Taylor’s Version)?
Physical, psychological, sexual abuse are all forms of this.
What is dating violence?
“I'm so sick of running as fast as I can, wondering if I'd get there quicker if I was” this.
What is “a man”?
They deny doing something that hurt your feelings, is an example of this.
What is gaslighting?
The name of one of Taylor’s cats.
Who is Meredith Grey / Olivia Benson / Benjamin Button?
Direct, Distract, Delegate and Delay are the 4Ds of this.
What is bystander intervention?
“Like, can you just not step on his gown?”
What is “You Need to Calm Down”?
They pressure you into sexual activity by saying, “We’ve been together for this long now”, which is an example of this.
What is guilt tripping?
The video of her song “Lover” happens inside one.
What are snowglobes?
Any form of harassment, abuse or violence that is inflicted upon a person or persons due to their gender expression, identity, or perceived gender.
What is gender-based violence?
“Ask me what I learned from all those years. Ask me what I earned from all those tears. Ask me why so many fade, but I'm still here.”
What is Karma? - Midnights