Conflict
Problem Solving
Random
Impulse Control
Winning and Losing
100
A disagreement or argument between people
What is a conflict
100
ASK what is the problem
What does the A stand for in the ABCD's of problem solving?
100
Taunting
What is it called when you are trying to escalate someone by teasing them? (Hint: it starts with a T)
100
Win-Win
Craig and his sister are constantly arguing because he wants a dog and his sister Millie wants a cat. Mom and dad surprise them with both. This is an example of a _____ ______ situation.
200
At least two
How many people does it take to have a conflict
200
Brainstorm solutions
What is it called when you come up with ideas to solve a problem?
200
Asking for empathy
"How would you feel if someone did that to you?" is an example of what?
200
Something you do without thinking
What is an impulse?
200
Lose Win
John is playing on his iPad and Dan snatches it away from him. John screams and slaps Dan. Because the teacher only saw this part, John got in trouble and Dan got to play on the iPad.
300
Physical and Verbal
What are the two types of conflict
300
Choose the best solution
What is the third step in the ABCD's of problem solving?
300
Tattling
What is it called when you tell on someone because you want to see them get into trouble?
300
Make a sign Make a signal Have them write it down Explain how it makes others feel when you shout out
Someone is new in your class and they don't know all the rules so they are constantly shouting out without raising their hand. How could you help them control this?
300
Lose Lose
Jacob and Rachel run to the swingset at recess. There is only one left. They start fighting and pushing each other. The lunch monitor sends them both to stand by the wall and they miss the rest of recess.
400
Escalating
What is it called when someone is making the problem worse?
400
1st step- asking what the problem is
Jane accidentally bumped into Sally in art and Sally's paintbrush touched her new outfit, leaving a stain. Instead of first yelling at Jane, Sally said to herself, "What am I really feeling?" and decided that she felt sad that her new outfit was ruined. What step in the ABCD's of problem solving did Sally use?
400
Finding a way for both people to get what they want, or meeting in the middle so both people are satisfied
What does it mean to compromise?
400
Politely tell them you were not finished with what you were saying.
When someone interrupts you, how do you handle it?
400
Win Lose
Shawn was invited to play over at his friend Bobby's house. Bobby asks Shawn if he wants to go outside to play, and Bobby says "no thanks" and spends the rest of the day playing one-player games on Bobby's PS3. Bobby feels bored the whole time.
500
De-escalating
What is it called when someone is taking the steps to make the problem better?
500
Rock paper scissors Oldest to youngest Flip a coin Eeenie meenie miney moe Shortest to tallest Pick a number Take turns
Name three ways to "choose the best solution" when people want different things
500
WELL DONE!
Ready?! Set? ACTION! (Act it out!) Give an example of a problem. Go through the ABCD's of problem solving and fix the problem.
500
It slows down your heartbeat, so your brain can do the thinking to problem solve.
Why does deep breathing help us calm down?
500
ALLLLLRIGHT!
Give an example of a win-win.