According to Teacher Tom
The Risks of Joy
Circle of Security
100

What is something that true joy needs?

Requirement of other humans

100

What are the two different camps?

Optimists and pessimists
100

What is a circle of security?

Visual map of attachment

200

What is the journey to joy in an individual?

Taking their own time and pace to experience joy with others without the need to hurry. 

200

Why would someone hold back opening themselves up to joy?

It could expose yourself to potential disappointment and shame. 

200

Why was this circle created?

So you can read your children's behavior to guide you in meeting their needs.

300

What is constitutional caution in children?

What is where children are wary of strong emotion or suspicious of their fellow humans until the ice is broken.

300

Which camp can strike someone as 'joyless'? Why?

The pessimists, they don't enjoy their successes or satisfactions as much as others.

300

How are the needs divided?

Freedom and confidence in the world, feel assured he can come back for comfort, caregiver in charge in a kind way.

400

How can the basic needs be thought of as?

Going out on the circle, coming in on the circle, and hands on the circle.