Define
How do they feel?
What should you do?
Compromising/Negotiating
100

What does personal space mean?

The amount of space needed between people to be comfortable and respectful

100

Your friend just won a raffle prize and gets to go to Disney

Excited

100

You missed the teacher's direction and everyone else has started working

Raise your hand or get your teacher's attention and ask them to tell you again

100

You want to watch Spiderman for the fun Friday movie, but your peer wants to watch Sing

One person chooses this week, the other next week

200

What does active listening look like?

Quiet, focused on the speaker, thinking about what they are saying

200

You have been looking forward to going outside but it started to rain

Upset/Disappointed

200

You can't understand what your friend is saying

Ask them to repeat themselves or tell them you don't understand

200

You and your peer both want to go first in the class game

Let another person go first, and you can go first next time

Rock paper scissors

300

What are facial expressions?

The movement of your head, eyes, eyebrows and/or mouth to show feelings or emotions

300

It was quiet during group and you farted

Embarrassed

300

Other students are talking about a topic that makes you uncomfortable

Go talk to somebody else or tell a teacher if it is something unsafe.

300

your friend wants to do something unsafe, but you don't want to. They call you a bad friend.

Do not compromise, because doing something unsafe can be dangerous

400

What are social cues?

Signals from other people that impact meaning of social interactions and can impact what you say/do next

400

You look over at your friend's lunch and they have a Reese's peanut butter cup, which is your absolute favorite.

Jealous

400

You didn't earn your cash in because you didn't complete your work

Complete all your work in time for your next cash in

400

You only need a few more minutes to finish your drawing, but your teacher told you its time for work. You are nervous you will forget what you wanted to do.

Ask for 5 more minutes or write down your ideas/tell your ideas to a teacher

500

What is body language?

The way someone's body, gestures, or posture show how they are feeling

500

You yelled at your teacher who was trying to help you. You calmed down but are now feeling really bad about yelling at them

Guilty

500

Your friend is having a hard time and wants to be alone

Give your friend space and time to calm down. Check in with them later

500

You want to play tag on the playground, but your friend wants to sit at the table and draw together

Split the time doing both 

Choose one and do the other next time

Play tag outside and draw inside when outside time is over