Real Talk –
Life Decisions
Life Decisions
Your friend just got fired and wants to go out and get drunk. What’s a good way to support him?
A) Let him vent and then take him out for drinks to help him forget
B) Avoid the situation—it’s his problem
C) Offer to talk, pray, and help him consider his next steps
D) Tell him to get over it and move on
C) Offer to talk, pray, and help him consider his next steps
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What does integrity mean?
A) Being a good guy when people are watching
B) Being bold and opinionated
C) Doing what’s right even when no one else is
D) Keeping others in line when they mess up
C) Doing what’s right even when no one else is
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What’s a healthy way to show respect in a relationship?
A) Taking control of all decisions
B) Allowing the other person to speak and feel heard
C) Avoiding conflict by staying silent
D) Apologizing even when they’re wrong
B) Allowing the other person to speak and feel heard
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
Prayer is:
A) Saying the right words to get what you want
B) A daily connection with God that builds relationship
C) Only for emergencies
D) A duty for religious people
B) A daily connection with God that builds relationship
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
Growth happens when:
A) You get recognized for your efforts
B) You avoid hard things
C) You take the easy road
D) You stay committed through difficulty
D) You stay committed through difficulty
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
You’re struggling financially. What’s a wise first step?
A) Apply for multiple credit cards to float you through
B) Start borrowing money from friends or family
C) Reassess your expenses and build a budget
D) Ignore your debt and focus on staying positive
C) Reassess your expenses and build a budget
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
A real man:
A) Handles his business and avoids asking for help
B) Pretends to be strong even when struggling
C) Is tough on the outside and closed on the inside
D) Is humble, honest, and learns from mistakes
D) Is humble, honest, and learns from mistakes
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
True or False: Saying "sorry" is a sign of weakness.
False
(Why did you choose this response?)
Where can you pray?
A) Only in church or with a pastor
B) Only in silence
C) Anywhere—God is always listening
D) In a special room at home
C) Anywhere—God is always listening
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What’s one key to finding purpose?
A) Doing what brings you money
B) Following what makes you happy in the moment
C) Serving others with your God-given gifts
D) Fitting in with the crowd
C) Serving others with your God-given gifts
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
You have a disagreement with your partner. What’s the best way to handle it?
A) Prove your point to make sure you're heard
B) Let it simmer and avoid talking for a while
C) Calmly discuss it, listen deeply, and aim for mutual understanding
D) Apologize even if you don’t mean it to end the fight quickly
C) Calmly discuss it, listen deeply, and aim for mutual understanding
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
Keeping your word is a sign of:
A) Personal branding
B) Wisdom and self-discipline
C) How to manipulate respect
D) Knowing how to impress others
B) Wisdom and self-discipline
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What builds strong friendships?
A) Saying yes to everything your friends want
B) Trust, loyalty, and willingness to grow together
C) Being brutally honest at all times
D) Hanging out often and having fun
B) Trust, loyalty, and willingness to grow together
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
How does God often speak to us?
A) Only through audible voices
B) Through His Word, our conscience, and through people and things around us.
C) Through mostly signs
D) Through random feelings that we get
B) Through His Word, our conscience, and through people and things around us.
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
Discipline helps you:
A) Survive routine
B) Stay consistent when motivation fades
C) Avoid mistakes
D) Be successful without rest
B) Stay consistent when motivation fades
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
You’re offered a shady job that pays well. What should guide your choice?
A) If no one will find out, it’s fine
B) As long as you’re just doing it temporarily, it’s okay
C) The opportunity to get ahead financially
D) Whether it aligns with your morals and God’s standards
D) Whether it aligns with your morals and God’s standards
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
You promised to help a friend move, but now you’re tired. What do you do?
A) Text last minute that something came up
B) Ask someone else to go in your place
C) Push through and show up because you gave your word
D) Just skip it and explain later
C) Push through and show up because you gave your word
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
One of your good friends shares with you that they are cheating on their partner with multiple people with whom they are intimate right now. What’s the respectful response?
A) Ignore it—it’s not your business
B) Share this with other people
C) Publicly confront them so they’ll stop
D) Speak to them privately and challenge them to do the right thing
D) Speak to them privately and challenge them to do the right thing
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What does faith look like daily?
A) Going to church once a week
B) Believing in God but not acting on it
C) Hoping things improve eventually
D) Living with trust in God’s guidance and obeying His direction
D) Living with trust in God’s guidance and obeying His direction
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
One way to grow spiritually is:
A) Debate people about religion
B) Stay open to all beliefs
C) Practice intentional time in prayer and the Word
D) Memorize Scripture for performance
C) Practice intentional time in prayer and the Word
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
You feel lost about your future. What's a healthy next step?
A) Distract yourself with entertainment until things feel better
B) Pray, seek godly counsel, and take small steps forward
C) Stay to yourself and avoid making decisions
D) Wait until someone tells you what to do
B) Pray, seek godly counsel, and take small steps forward
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What does it mean to "walk the talk"?
A) Let your lifestyle reflect your values
B) Speak with passion so people listen
C) Look confident when sharing your beliefs
D) Know what to say in the right crowd
A) Let your lifestyle reflect your values
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What does forgiveness really mean?
A) Choosing peace even if the relationship changes
B) Rebuilding trust instantly
C) Pretending nothing happened
D) Letting people get away with wrong
A) Choosing peace even if the relationship changes
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
Why does reading the Bible help?
A) It gives us rules to follow
B) It increases our chances of blessings
C) It makes us sound spiritual
D) It reveals God's character and guides our steps
D) It reveals God's character and guides our steps
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)
What’s a sign you’re leveling up?
A) You get applause from others
B) You feel busy all the time
C) You don’t need anyone’s help
D) You handle conflict and stress with humility and peace
D) You handle conflict and stress with humility and peace
(Why did you choose this in comparison to the others?)