Communication
listening to understand, validation of others thoughts and feelings, ask questions plus other things are aspect of THIS
what is good communication skills
the definition of economic paternship
you and your partner have an understanding of your financial situation and have a plan to address the household budget, including debt.
Myth or fact: mental health disorders can affect your physical health
fact
a discussion aimed at reaching an agreement
this forces one person to depend on another person financially
what is economic/financial abuse
what we should do before answering someone else
what is understand what they are saying
the percentage of divorces related to finances
what is 20-40%
Myth or fact: symptoms must be extreme for an individual to be diagnosed with a mental health disorder
myth
This form of listening conveys a mutual understanding between speaker and listener.
what is active listening
99% of domestic violence cases include this
what is financial abuse
refusing to communicate with another person and withdrawing from the conversation to create distance between the individual and their partner
what is stonewalling
the three things that should be discussed prior to going into a binding relationship (marriage, kids, etc)
what is each persons debt, income and assests
how many kids in the US have a psychiatric disorder
around 17.1 million
a form of communication that helps take out the need to be defensive
what is i statements
the population most affected by financial abuse
what is ages 65+
these signs are indication of this in a relationship: a partner who doesn't listen or pay attention, a partner who centers the attention back to themselves, or someone who becomes defensive during conversations.
what is poor communication
what are the short term and long term goals you can discuss with money
Long term: retirement, big vacation, how long you plan on working etc
people who have been through trauma are 3x more likely to experience THIS
depression
One way to help share your passion with others while staying respecful
setting ground rules of what is okay or not okay to discuss/setting those boundaries!
one of the top reasons women return to abusive partners
what is financial insecurity
this is called the 48 hour rule
if you are unsure if you want to bring something up that may have bothered you, wait for 48 hours and see if it still bothers you
the topics that should be discussed in a regular parttern
what is balances and pay, expenses coming up, where are you in paying bills, does each person have enough money to get through next cycle, what do is happening with unexpected income, any progress towards goals
myth or fact: pretending to have a mental disorder is a mental disorder
fact
the critical components of a negotiation
what is your desired outcome from the conversation, what are the non negotiables, and how important is it ot maintain the relationship
figuring out where to go, how to get there and how to support self and others are all included when trying to do this while getting out of an abusive relationship
what is safety planning