Mean
Define Mean
intentional behavior that hurts another person 1-2x
This is the main difference between rude and mean behavior.
intention to hurt another person
What are the three things bullying always includes
1. Repetition
2. Intention
3. Power Imbalance
If your “joke” hurts someone’s feelings, this is what you should say and do
Sorry and check-in
What is a baby kangaroo called?
A Joey
What has hands but can’t clap?
A Clock
Give one example of cyberbullying and its possible real-life consequences
(i.e.: spreading rumors online → loss of friends, anxiety, school discipline)
Name a reason someone might use “just kidding” after saying something unkind
to avoid responsibility / to test reactions / to cover up insecurity/ etc.
Being mean once might not be bullying, but it can still cause this:
emotional harm/ hurt feelings/ anxiety/ someone feeling bad
Why is it important to think before reacting to someone rude?
they may not mean it / reacting with kindness can stop conflict / it models maturity/ etc.
This role, often ignored, can either fuel or stop bullying.
Bystander
This popular board game has pieces called thimbles, top hats, and dogs
Monopoly
What is one healthy way to respond to someone who is mean to you without being mean back?
stay calm, walk away, speak up assertively, talk to a trusted adult/ etc.
Give an example of a cultural behavior that might seem rude to one group but is normal in another.
(teacher's choice)
What makes bullying different from conflict?
bullying is one-sided and meant to harm; conflict is between equals and may not be intentional
What’s the difference between being mean and teasing in a friendly way?
How the other person feels about it