CPAF
Center for the Pacific Asian Family
What does CPAF stand for?
Qualities and traits that make you, you!
What is identity?
Expectations of how an average man or woman should behave in order to fit into our society.
What are gender norms?
Platonic, familial, romantic, teacher/student
What are different types of relationships you can have?
Willie's old job
What is the US army?
What is a cultural norm within your family?
[free response]
TRUE or FALSE: In 2024, only 20% of adults (men & women) believe that society is not accepting enough of those who behave in ways outside of the norms of their assigned gender.
FALSE, the percentage of adults is actually ~44%.
Trust, respect, safety, empathy, consent, communication
What are key components of a healthy relationship?
Joy's old job
What is a college advisor?
Identities that are shared between social groups, e.g. gender, race/ethnicity, sexuality, extracurricular group, religion, nationality
What are examples of social identity?
The descriptor for when a person is born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit the boxes of “female” or “male.”
What is intersex?
Checking phone without permission, isolating you from other people, telling you what you are allowed to do/not do, hitting/pushing/throwing objects, cheating, name-calling
What are signs of an unhealthy relationship?
CPAF's community center location
What is Koreatown?
TRUE or FALSE: Culture refers to shared customs, values, beliefs specifically pertaining to your ethnic or racial background.
FALSE: Culture is shared customs, values, and beliefs that pertain to any social identity (e.g. race/ethnicity, gender, age, sexuality, education level, political group, etc.)
What is asexual?
Starting statements using "I" rather than "you." For example, "I feel lonely when I don't get a text from you all day," vs. "You make me feel lonely when you don't text me back all day." Communicating in this way allows one to take ownership of their feelings and needs, rather than imply blame on the other party, which often leads to defensiveness.
What is 'I-language'?
shelter, counseling, anonymous 24/7 hotline, youth and parenting prevention programs
What are CPAF services?
The part of the cultural iceberg that requires lifelong reflection, unpacking core values within the group, such as what is acceptable/not acceptable, attractive/unattractive, right/wrong, etc.
What is the deep iceberg?
One term is how you feel internally about your masculinity and femininity.
The other term is who you are attracted to.
What is the difference between gender and sexuality?
F. - Freely Given
R. - Reversible
I. - Informed
E. - Enthusiastic
S. - Specific
What is consent?