I came to HELP
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100

How did you know he was your husband? (When will I know if I’ve found my husband?)

the Word says "HE that finds a good wife, finds a good thing" ... Proverbs 18:22 / Proverbs 31 / Ruth and Boaz (Ruth gained favor through humility and love) - she was humble. Are we humble or are we walking around as if our stuff don't stink...

100

What if my husband is in the mood and I’m not and vice versa…? or as an unmarried woman, how do I deal with the pressure?

100

I find myself doing the things that I said I’d never do. How do I break the cycle?

Put the Word on it. Attack the thing that is attacking you... Attack it with the Word --> Breaking Chains


100

As a Christian, how do I let my light shine in darkness? I have friends who aren’t living so-called saved lives. What do I do?

"Come out from among them and be ye separate, says the LORD"


100

How can I tell if I’m truly saved or not?

Whosoever Calls upon the Name of the Lord shall be saved. (Romans 10:13) (to call: be convinced that we need God)

*1 John chapter 5*

200

How do I trust/love again after my trust/heart has been broken? 

Forgiveness and Growth

200

Should I always freely speak my mind?

Freely Speak as God leads, using wisdom and love - not with any ill intent. We have to be careful speaking things out of turn and out of season. (Example: Scripture where the town people brought the woman to Jesus who was caught in adultery)

200

Can an unholy relationship turn into a holy relationship?

For example: Maybe it started off from the 'club' or at the bar, at a social event, but ended in the 'church'

The Foundation matters... "The IN-BETWEEN time is the key factor"/ What's being done to nourish the relationship if possible to get it to one that pleases God. CHANGE FOR THE BETTER, AND SOMETIMES THAT DOESN'T ALWAYS MEAN 'TOGETHER.'

200

I’ve been struggling in an area that I know is not pleasing to God, but I just can’t help it. What do I do?

Submit to God. Resist the devil, then he will flee. (James 4:7)

200

WILDCARD

WILDCARD

*Ask a Question, Make a Comment or PASS*


300

WILDCARD


WILDCARD

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300

Should Christians cuss? I’m asking for a friend.

Guard the Tongue


300

My husband demands that I cook, and because he 'demands' it makes me not want to do it. How do I handle that?

300

How do I get to the point where I don’t worry about how others feel about me?

First be confident and certain of your place in God. Are you sincere in your walk with Christ? Or is pleasing yourself and people more important to you than pleasing God? *People Matters*

300

Should I worry about being offensive to others with my actions and words?

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you...

400

How do I let go when I know the relationship/situation is never going to get any better?

Get tired of being sick and tired for real. What's your limit?

400

Lately, it seems like everything is hitting me hard in life. How can I deal with it and not be overcome by discouragement and feelings of defeat?

God's Strength is made perfect in our weakness

400

When dating, how do I avoid the "Tinder-Swindler" if using a dating app (dating app horror), or even meeting someone 'traditionally'?

We live in a 'technology-age' so dating is a little different in that instead of an actual "face-to-face" standard style meeting, an 'online' 'virtual' world has been unveiled... and there are many platforms where people "meet online".... The Tinder Swindler is a documentary that recaps the real life story of a man who swindled multiple women out of a whole lot of money and left them with nothing and in some cases less than what they initially had.

400

WILDCARD

WILDCARD

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400

How do I guide/guard my child about life (i.e. what's normal and not normal, dating, church, school etc)?

children need training... they are NOT the leaders, we are as adults.


 

500

I came to HELP

500

I heard my Pastor say/do something I really didn’t agree with. How do I approach the situation?

Uhoh Pastor / Go to the source; don't gossip about it - pray, use wisdom and seek it out.

500

WILDCARD

WILDCARD

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500

How many times do I forgive, when it seems like I'm being made a fool out of?

You can forgive an infinite amount of times without being a fool. There's a difference between being played for a fool and being forgiving... Just because we forgive does not mean we have to linger in or keep the same circle.

500

Is it possible to love, teach, and discipline his children as my own when necessary and vice versa? (i.e. BLENDED FAMILIES, how to cope)

Build the family relationship as with any other. Relationships will be different as a given but it doesn't mean that love is non-existent. Situations determine how we react, interact and move forward.