Definitions
This is making choices that are considerate of yourself or others, being able to choose right from wrong, following through with your word or promise, and being dependable
What is responsible?
Two people disagreeing on how to complete a group project is an example of _____
What is a conflict?
One or both people agree to give up a little of what they origibally wanted but are okay with it in order to resolve the conflict
What is compromise?
Name one of the conflict resolution strategies we learned
Compromise, agreement, agree to disagree, friendly rivalry/leave it to chance, seeking guidance from an adult, making a deal
When everyone agrees to try the plan
Implementing
This is expressing oneself effectively after listening to another person's perspective, while respecting the rights and beliefs of others.
What is communication?
Showing consideration or thoughtfulness is being __________
What is respectful?
Both people agree to do one thing in exchange for something else (e.g., "If i do this, will you do that?
What is making a deal?
Examples of seeking guidance from an adult
teacher, parent, counselor (someone you can trust who can give you responsible suggestions)
Evaluate the plan means
Determining whether the plan will work
e.g what would happen if? would it be safe and fair? how would everyone feel? Is it a win-win situation? Is it realsitic and does it make the situation better?
The students disagree about who made the winning basketball shot, but they decide it does not matter because their team won.
This scenario is an example of a ___________ decision
What is responsible?
Review: What is active listening?
This is when we show we are listening to someone by making eye contact, leaning forward, nodding, and showing interest in what the person is saying. For instance, we may do this by asking questions or trying to relate to the other person.
Both individuals decide on a resolution or plan
What is agreement?
Both people decide this is something they will likely not agree on, and they will accept this fact. Having different perspectives is okay!
What is agree to disagree?
When developing a plan, we should make sure
The plan is reasonable, respectful, and responsible for everyone involved. Everyone's perspective and needs should be taken into account.
After disagreeing about who would be the lead presenter in a group project, the two students decided on a __________ of each taking turns talking
What is resolution?
This is the way you choose to think about things and how those thoughts are reflected in your behaviors toward a situation or a problem
What is attitude?
People decide to play a game to resolve the conflict or just not do anything ad see how things turn out
What is friendly rivalry/leave it to chance?
Two friends disagree over which movie to watch. They both agree to flip a coin to make the decision.
This is an example of
Friendly rivalry
Name all the 4 steps of the problem solving model
1) Identify the problem
2) developing a plan
3) evaluate the plan
4) implement the plan
This is a way of dealing with a problem in a helpful or constructive manner and finding some way to reach an agreement.
What is problem solving/conflict resolution?
This is reaching a decision or finding a solution
What is resolve?
Provide your own example of a conflict (either real or made up) and what conflict resolution strategy you would implement
Options:
compromise, agreement, agree to disagree, friendly rivalry/leave it to chance, seeking guidance from an adult, making a deal
Give your own example of a compromise.
Example: one person wants to play basketball and the other wants to play soccer. They decide they can spend half of the time playing basketball and the other hald they will play soccer.
You and your friend both try out for the same sports team, and your friend makes the team, but you do not. Your friend keeps joking about how they made the team and you didn't, which makes you upset.
Walk through the problem-solving model and how you would resolve this conflict.
Identify the problem
Develop a plan
Evaluate the plan
Implement the plan