Healthy Relationships
A healthy relationship can sometimes be controlling, manipulative, or jealous. True or False
False
Which one is your dating right? A) To set your own limits. B) To end your relationship. C) To be equal. D) All of the above.
D) All of the above
Pushing, hitting, beaten with a fist or choking.
Physical Abuse
What month is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month?
February
If trapped in an abusive relationship, who did teens say they would ask for help? A. Parents B. Teacher C. Friends
C) Friends - This is why peer education and involvement are so important!
Always doing what your friends/Boyfriend/Girlfriend wants to do is considered what kind of relationship? Healthy or unhealthy?
Unhealthy
You have the right to be GUILT-FREE when dating. What does that mean? A) You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty. B)If you're a guy, you have to act tough. If you're a girl, you have to be pretty. C) You can't go anywhere without your dating partner knowing
A) You can refuse to go out on a date without feeling guilty.
Being made to feel guilty about who you are.
Emotional Abuse
What is the name of the Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault Crisis Center in your county?
Safe Center
Unhealthy relationships only happen for which group of teenagers? A) Athletes B) Poor teens C) All teens can experience unhealthy relationships D) Only teens who have unhealthy examples and/or unstable home lives
C) All teens can experience unhealthy relationships
It is okay for your friends to make you feel guilty for ending any relationships. True or False
False
When can you end your relationship with someone? A) Only if you have a GOOD reason to B) Only when you don't feel safe C) For any reason, at any time
C) For any reason, at any time.
Tells you who you can, and cant be "friends" with online
Digital Abuse
If you think you are in an unhealthy relationship who are 3 people you can talk to?
Counselor, Teacher, Parents, Safe Center Advocates, Other trusted adults, etc.
Unhealthy relationships only happen when one person makes the other person mad. True or False
False. Unhealthy relationships happen because one person wants to have power and control over the other person. It's never your fault, even if you say or do something that makes the other person angry.
Name one characteristic of a healthy relationship
Being respectful, safety, equality, support, individuality, fairness, acceptance, trust, good communication.
Your opinion is equally as important as your partner's opinion, except when: A) Your partner is hard of hearing. B) Your partner is smarter than you. C) Your opinion is always as important as your partner's D) Your partner didn't ask you for your opinion.
C) Your opinion is always as important as your partner's
Feeling as though you are to blame for the situation.
Emotional Abuse
What hours can you call the hotline at Safe Center and speak with an advocate?
Anytime! The hotline is available 24 hours, 7 days a week!
Megan and Tyler have been dating for a few months. Recently, Megan noticed Tyler checking Megan's Facebook wall, and logging into Megan's email. It's bothering Megan that Tyler is doing this. What should Megan do? A) Write mean things about Tyler on her Facebook B) Talk with Tyler about how she feels, and ask Tyler to please stop checking her FB/email C) Tell all her friends, but never confront Tyler directly about it
B) Talk with Tyler about how she feels, and ask Tyler to please stop checking her FB/email
If the person you are dating is always telling you how to look, to wear make up or certain clothes, to look nice or they won't be seen with you, is that verbal, emotional, or mental abuse?
All of them.
You have the right to set your limits. What does that mean? A) You can say "NO" to anything (touch, showing things, saying things on the phone, etc). B) You can decide to do something with one partner, and then don't do the same thing with your next partner. C) You can have privacy whenever you want away from your partner. D) All of the above
D) All of the above
Sends you unwanted, explicit pictures, or demands them in return.
Digital Abuse
What is the 24-hour hotline number at Safe Center?
580-252-4357 (HELP)
Which one is the correct definition of teen dating violence? A) Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another within a romantic or dating relationship. B) When one person hits another person while dating or in a relationship.
A) Pattern of controlling, and abusive behaviors of one person over another within a romantic or dating relationship.
It can include verbal, emotional, physical, sexual, and financial abuse. It knows no boundaries and crosses all lines of race, socio-economic status, etc.