Big ProblemLittle Problem
When I run out of cheese for my pizza
Little problem
A stranger hugs me
What is crossing my boundary
This is an imaginary line that separates me from you.
What is a boundary
The people who love and care about me
Who are people in my inner circle of support/family and friends
We both like the same things
What is a healthy relationship
I am late for work and dont call my Supervisor to let him know
Big Problem
I talk about my personal problems at work
What is crossing a boundary
You need to be able to say “NO” and learn how to accept “NO” from other people-they need to protect their boundaries too.
What is Boundaries go both ways/they are a two way street
People who are paid to be in my circle
Who are the people in my circle of exchange
You both get to make choices
What is a healthy relationship
My house is on fire
Big Problem
I only talk about trains during lunch
What is staying within your boundary
This keeps us safe who can touch you, how they can touch you and where they touch you
What is a Physical Boundary
People I hang out with and I like
Who are the people in my friend circle
We only do the things I want to do
What is an unhealthy relationship