Scenario: Physical Boundaries
You feel uncomfortable when a someone hugs/touches you without asking. What could you say or do?
Answer vary but - Use clear language like 'I feel...' or 'I need...'
What is Subway Surfing?
Subway surfing is the act of riding outside or on top of a moving subway car, often for thrills or attention.
What is an Emotional Trigger?
Acting out | Dumping anger on others | Suppressing anger
Scenario: During a basketball game, Chris feels cheated by a referee’s bad call and starts yelling at the referee and other players.
Acting out
What is Gun Violence? And who can it effect?
Name 3/5 types of Boundaries
Ex: Emotional
1. Physical
2. Emotional
3. Time
4. Digital
5. Professional
Which appeal do you think is more of the influence?
PART 1: THRILL-SEEKING BEHAVIOR
PART 2: INFLUENCE OF SOCIAL MEDIA
PART 3: DESIRE FOR PEER RECOGNITION
PART 1: THRILL-SEEKING BEHAVIOR
PART 2: INFLUENCE OF SOCIAL MEDIA
PART 3: DESIRE FOR PEER RECOGNITION
Give me 2 Examples of Emotional Triggers
What is one warning sign of anger?
Signs include heavy breathing, shouting, throwing objects, and losing control over your actions.
Taking a life through gun violence has lasting impacts: Give me 2 lasting impact!
1.Legal consequences (prison, criminal record).
2. Emotional toll (regret, guilt, loss of future).
3. Impact on families (grief, trauma, loss of loved ones).
4. Community impact (fear, instability).
1. Boundaries are selfish.
False
Name 2 Consequences of Subway Surfing
Death
Fine
Jail Time
Why Is Understanding Emotions Important?
Recognizing emotions helps us respond to situations more effectively and helps us communicate our feelings.
Name 1 De-escalation Technique for handling trigger.
When you're triggered, it can be helpful to de-escalate the situation. Techniques like walking away, counting to ten, or using positive self-talk can help.
Grief and trauma can have long-lasting effects on victims' families and friends. How?
1. Emotional struggles: anger, sadness, and guilt.
2. Trauma can lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges.
Scenario: Digital Boundaries
You receive an inappropriate message. How do you address it?
Answer Vary
Incident: In April 2023, a 16-year-old boy was arrested for subway surfing on the F train in Brooklyn. The NYPD caught him on the train’s roof, risking his life and the lives of passengers. What would you say to him? What should his consequences be?
Answers Vary
Name 2 types of emotions
You can improve your emotional intelligence by:
You witness a heated argument in your neighborhood that seems like it might turn violent. What is your response?
Answer Vary
What is one boundary you need to set and why it matters.
Answers Vary
True or False
“Subway surfing only affects the person doing it.”
False
Common anger styles include (3)
Acting out | Dumping anger on others | Suppressing anger
Scenario: Olivia feels disrespected by her friend’s joke but says nothing and pretends it didn’t bother her, although she’s upset inside.
Suppressing
Positive Response: Olivia can express how the joke made her feel to her friend in a calm way, helping to avoid future misunderstandings.
You hear someone is planning to bring a weapon to a party or gathering. What is your response?
Answer Varys.