Name healthy ways of dealing with conflict
Caring about the other person’s view
Using your calm and assertive voice to express your feelings
Not taking things too personally
Learning to forgive
Being able to compromise
Working to find solutions that can accommodate both sides (negotiation)
what is out of your control?
What has to be broken before you can use it?
An egg
What's the response to "see you later, alligator?"
"In a while, crocodile."
Name unhealthy ways of dealing with conflict
Not caring about the other person’s view
Big emotional reactions like getting very angry, shouting, calling names, threatening
Not being able to compromise
Giving up on something that is important to you
Ignoring the problem
Leaving people out
Why is kindness important?
We want others to treat us how we want to be treated. Even when we have conflict, we still care about the other person's feelings. When we are kind, it is easier to solve conflict.
What belongs to you, but others use it more than you?
Your name
What type of fish is Nemo?
A clownfish
Describe a Big problem
A big problem needs an adult's help because someone is hurt, teased, or unsafe.
What could Naomi do differently next time she is upset with her friend?
Use I messages. don't assume. ask questions.
What gets wet as it dries?
A towel
What is the largest mammal in the world?
A whale
Describe a small problem
A small problem can be solved independently. You need to find a strategy to calm down and then find the best solution.
What is an "I" message?
An “I” message can help you communicate your concerns, feelings, and needs without blaming others or sounding threatening.
What kind of room has no doors or windows?
A Mushroom
Which planet in our Solar System is known for having a ring?
Saturn
What can you control?
What does an "I" message sound like?
“I feel ____________ when you ______________ because _______________.”
What has a head and tail but no body?
A coin
How many colors are in a rainbow?
7