Stress Basics
Types of Stressors
Defense Mechanisms
The 3 Stages
Erik’s Story
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Something in the world that makes a demand on a person.

Stressor 

(Session 8 ... p. 3)

100

These occur when obstacles block a person from reaching a goal.

Frustrations 

(Session 8 ... p. 4)

100

A mechanism where people do not let themselves think about painful thoughts.

Repression 

(Session 8 ... p. 6)

100

The first stage of stress where a person becomes more alert and tense.

Alarm 

(Session 8 ... p. 18)

100

This was the first stressful event Erik faced at work in the morning.

Behind on paperwork 

(Session 8 ... p. 19)

200

An internal reaction to the demand of a stressor.

Stress 

(Session 8 ... p. 3)

200

Stress that forces people to achieve goals by working harder or faster.

Pressures 

(Session 8 ... p. 5)

200

A defense where a person avoids feelings by using "logical" explanations.

Intellectualization 

(Session 8 ... p. 6)

200

The stage where people become rigid and cling to defense mechanisms.

Resistance 

(Session 8 ... p. 18)

200

Erik was written up for this reason after returning from lunch.

Taking a long lunch 

(Session 8 ... p. 19)

300

Substances that temporarily reduce stress but cause more later.

Mood-altering drugs 

(Session 8 ... p. 1)

300

This occurs when there are two opposing forces—one against the other.

Conflicts

(Session 8 ... p. 7)

300

Avoiding hope to protect oneself from being disappointed again.

Emotional insulation 

(Session 8 ... p. 6)

300

The final stage where coping mechanisms fail and a person may collapse.

Exhaustion 

(Session 8 ... p. 18)

300

This unexpected vehicle issue delayed Erik for an hour on his way home.

Flat tire 

(Session 8 ... p. 20)

400

A strategy like calling a sponsor or exercising to handle stress.

Coping strategy 

(Session 8 ... p. 2)

400

An internal obstacle like guilt or fear that blocks a goal.

Internal frustration 

(Session 8 ... p. 4)

400

Returning to less mature, old ways of dealing with the world.

Regression 

(Session 8 ... p. 7)

400

These experiences indicate a person is "falling apart" during the final stage.

Hallucinations/Delusions 

(Session 8 ... p. 18)

400

Erik and his wife argued mostly about this specific topic.

Money/Bills 

(Session 8 ... p. 20)

500

These systems, like self-help groups, help make stressors less potent.

External supports 

(Session 8 ... p. 3)

500

A choice between two favorite "Twelve Step" meetings at the same time.

Internal conflict 

(Session 8 ... p. 8)

500

Defenses developed during addiction that can actually hinder recovery.

Old defense mechanisms 

(Session 8 ... p. 5)

500

Stress and poor resources cause these to "run out" in Stage 3.

Individual resources 

(Session 8 ... p. 18)

500

Erik’s son was seen "hanging out" here instead of attending class.

Across the street from school 

(Session 8 ... p. 19)