Something in the world that makes a demand on a person.
Stressor
(Session 8 ... p. 3)
These occur when obstacles block a person from reaching a goal.
Frustrations
(Session 8 ... p. 4)
A mechanism where people do not let themselves think about painful thoughts.
Repression
(Session 8 ... p. 6)
The first stage of stress where a person becomes more alert and tense.
Alarm
(Session 8 ... p. 18)
This was the first stressful event Erik faced at work in the morning.
Behind on paperwork
(Session 8 ... p. 19)
An internal reaction to the demand of a stressor.
Stress
(Session 8 ... p. 3)
Stress that forces people to achieve goals by working harder or faster.
Pressures
(Session 8 ... p. 5)
A defense where a person avoids feelings by using "logical" explanations.
Intellectualization
(Session 8 ... p. 6)
The stage where people become rigid and cling to defense mechanisms.
Resistance
(Session 8 ... p. 18)
Erik was written up for this reason after returning from lunch.
Taking a long lunch
(Session 8 ... p. 19)
Substances that temporarily reduce stress but cause more later.
Mood-altering drugs
(Session 8 ... p. 1)
This occurs when there are two opposing forces—one against the other.
Conflicts
(Session 8 ... p. 7)
Avoiding hope to protect oneself from being disappointed again.
Emotional insulation
(Session 8 ... p. 6)
The final stage where coping mechanisms fail and a person may collapse.
Exhaustion
(Session 8 ... p. 18)
This unexpected vehicle issue delayed Erik for an hour on his way home.
Flat tire
(Session 8 ... p. 20)
A strategy like calling a sponsor or exercising to handle stress.
Coping strategy
(Session 8 ... p. 2)
An internal obstacle like guilt or fear that blocks a goal.
Internal frustration
(Session 8 ... p. 4)
Returning to less mature, old ways of dealing with the world.
Regression
(Session 8 ... p. 7)
These experiences indicate a person is "falling apart" during the final stage.
Hallucinations/Delusions
(Session 8 ... p. 18)
Erik and his wife argued mostly about this specific topic.
Money/Bills
(Session 8 ... p. 20)
These systems, like self-help groups, help make stressors less potent.
External supports
(Session 8 ... p. 3)
A choice between two favorite "Twelve Step" meetings at the same time.
Internal conflict
(Session 8 ... p. 8)
Defenses developed during addiction that can actually hinder recovery.
Old defense mechanisms
(Session 8 ... p. 5)
Stress and poor resources cause these to "run out" in Stage 3.
Individual resources
(Session 8 ... p. 18)
Erik’s son was seen "hanging out" here instead of attending class.
Across the street from school
(Session 8 ... p. 19)