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Nonverbal
. Communication without using words, such as gestures or facial expressions.
Gesture
A movement of the body or hands that expresses an idea or feeling.
Body language
The way people use their body to communicate, including posture and movements.
Facial expression
The look on someone’s face that shows their emotions or feelings.
Posture
The way someone holds their body when sitting or standing.
What happens after words are spoken?
A. They can be taken back
B. They disappear immediately
C. They stay in people’s minds
D. They are always forgotten
C. They stay in people’s minds
What is one way to use words in a positive way?
A. By teasing someone
B. By giving a compliment
C. By ignoring people
D. By lying to protect feelings
B. By giving a compliment
What do you do before speaking?
A. Say whatever is on your mind
B. Ask yourself how the words might affect someone
C. Practice the sentence out loud
D. Whisper first, then speak louder
B. Ask yourself how the words might affect someone
Which phrase best shows taking responsibility for your words?
A. “I didn’t mean it, so it’s fine.”
B. “You made me say that.”
C. “I’m sorry for what I said. I’ll do better.”
D. “Everyone talks like that.”
C. “I’m sorry for what I said. I’ll do better.”
Why should people choose their words carefully?
A. Because words can make or break friendships
B. Because people forget what you say
C. Because only adults care about words
D. Because silence is always better
A. Because words can make or break friendships
How do words show who we are as people?
Words reflect our personality, values, emotions, and beliefs. The way we speak—whether we’re kind, respectful, honest, or rude—can show others what kind of person we are. For example, someone who uses encouraging and respectful language often comes across as caring and thoughtful.
What does the phrase “think before you speak” mean in your own words?
This phrase means you should pause and consider your words carefully before saying them. It reminds us to be mindful of how what we say might affect others, and to avoid saying something we might regret later.
Why can saying "I didn't mean it" still leave someone feeling hurt?
Even if the words weren’t meant to hurt, they can still cause pain. Once something is said, it can't be taken back, and the impact of the words can stay with the person. Saying “I didn’t mean it” doesn’t erase how the other person felt when they heard it.
How can using positive words change someone’s day?
Positive words can uplift someone, make them feel appreciated, and boost their confidence. A simple compliment or kind message can turn someone’s bad day into a better one, showing that words have the power to spread kindness and encouragement.
Give two examples of nonverbal communication
Facial expressions – Smiling to show happiness, frowning to show confusion or anger.
Gestures – Waving to say hello or goodbye, giving a thumbs up to show approval.
Posture – Standing tall to show confidence, slouching to show boredom or tiredness.
Eye contact – Looking someone in the eyes to show you’re listening and paying attention.
Tone of voice – Saying “I’m fine” in a calm voice vs. a sarcastic or angry tone.
Body movement – Nodding your head to show agreement or shaking it to say “no.”
Personal space – Standing close to someone can show comfort or closeness; standing far away can show discomfort or formality.
Touch – A pat on the back to encourage someone or a high five to celebrate.
How can standing with your arms crossed be interpreted?
Standing with your arms crossed can be interpreted in several ways, depending on the situation and body language as a whole. Common interpretations include:
Defensiveness – The person might feel uncomfortable or protective.
Disagreement or resistance – They may not agree with what’s being said.
Closed off or unapproachable – It can signal that someone doesn’t want to engage.
Thinking or concentrating – Sometimes people cross their arms while deep in thought.
Comfort – For some, it’s just a natural or comfortable resting position.
Why should we pay attention to our body language?
we don't want to be sending the wrong message.
What does a thumbs up usually mean?
A thumbs up is a common nonverbal gesture that usually means:
Approval or agreement
Good job or success
Everything is okay or “all clear”
Encouragement or support
It’s a quick way to show positive feelings without using words!
What can someone’s facial expression tell you?
Someone’s facial expression can reveal a lot about how they are feeling or what they are thinking, even if they don’t say a word. For example:
A smile usually shows happiness, friendliness, or approval.
A frown can indicate sadness, confusion, or displeasure.
Raised eyebrows might mean surprise or curiosity.
A scrunched forehead can show worry or frustration.
Tight lips might suggest anger or disapproval.
List three ways you can show you’re a good listener.
Make Eye Contact
Look at the person who’s speaking to show you’re paying attention.
Nod Your Head
Nod occasionally to show you understand or agree with what they’re saying.
Avoid Interrupting
Let the person finish speaking before you respond, showing respect and patience.
Why is it important not to interrupt someone when they are talking?
Not interrupting shows respect and lets the speaker fully express their thoughts or feelings. Interrupting can make the person feel ignored or unimportant, and it can cause misunderstandings because you might miss important information. Listening fully helps build trust and better communication between people.
Why is being a good listener important anywhere? (School, church, community)
Being a good listener is important everywhere because it helps us understand others better, build strong relationships, and work well together. Whether at school, church, or in the community, listening carefully shows respect and makes people feel valued. It also helps solve problems, learn new things, and create a positive, supportive environment for everyone.
What does "S"stands for in SOLER, and what does it mean?
Sit squarely, Face the speaker with your body
What does "E" stands for? Explain
"E" stands for Eye contact - It means to look at the speaker when listening.
What does "R" in SOLER stands for and Explain
"R" stands for - Respond, it means when you are listening you show your respond. For example Nodding, asking questions, paraphrasing, saying "Oh wow!"