Developmental Stages
Tasks & Milestones
Communication & Roadblocks
Parenting & Environments
100

This is the developmental stage stretching from birth to about two years of age where an infant requires nearly constant care.

Infancy
100

The most important social task for infants to develop when their basic needs are met regularly and reliably.

Trust

100

This communication skill shows you respect a child and involves paraphrasing or rewording what you hear to ensure correct understanding.

Active Listening

100

This fundamental parenting pillar gives children warmth, acceptance, and a healthy self-esteem.

Expressing love

200

This rough age range defines early childhood, a period where toilet training is a major developmental issue.

Two to six years of age

200

Beyond emotional and social categories, this third type of task involves a child's exploration, language, and intellect.

Intellectual Tasks

200

This natural part of life symbolizes genuine family differences and should be allowed so children learn to think independently.

Disagreement

200

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To help children understand the value of organizing time, families should create this visual item and post it where all can see.

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A written, regular schedule

300

This childhood stage spans from ages seven to eleven, during which children build on skills and encounter schoolwork.

Preadolescence

300

A major social transition for adolescents as they gain independence and develop strong personal opinions.

The struggle for identity

300

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This ineffective listening response humiliates children when they make mistakes and makes them feel worthless. 

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Using Shame

300

To encourage children to try again after a mistake, parents should reward this specific attribute rather than perfection.

Effort

400

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Triggered by hormone releases, this term describes the rapid physical changes and growth spurts that occur during the transition to adulthood.

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Puberty

400

During preadolescence, children build this self-directed understanding of right and wrong instead of just doing as they are told.

A sense of morality

400

Parents create this roadblock when they focus on who started an issue rather than looking for a way to fix it.

Focusing on blame

400

This specific type of caregiver states rules clearly, enforces them firmly, and rarely gives in to temper tantrums.

The guiding caregiver

500

The lesson breaks down human growth into five stages, consisting of infancy, early childhood, preadolescence, adolescence, and this final stage.

Adulthood

500

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The primary emotional task for an infant regarding their mother, father, or primary caretaker.

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Bonding or becoming emotionally attached

500

Using phrases like "you always have this problem" falls under this unhelpful communication category.

Overgeneralizations

500

This physical parenting method generally backfires by promoting fear, anxiety, depression, and behavioral problems.

Physical punishment