Expectations and Boundary Circles
What are expectations and boundaries?
Any answer along the lines of:
Expectations are how we would like to be treated.
Boundaries are limits for what we will accept and what we will do.
What is a conflict?
Conflicts can be problems, disagreements, arguments, fights, disputes, clashes of two differing point of views, etc.
What brand makes IPhones, Macbooks, Airpods, etc. ?
Apple
What vitamin comes from the sun?
How many letters are in the alphabet?
26
What is an example of an expectation you might have of a close friend?
Any answer along the lines of:
A close friend is expected to be kind, understanding, trustworthy, loyal, honest, etc.
Are conflicts always negative, or can they be positive? If so, how and when can they be positive?
Any answer along the lines of:
Yes. Conflicts can be positive when they cause people to consider different ideas and alternatives. For example, "agree to disagree." Etc.
What is the square root of 81
9
What color eyes do most humans have?
Brown
What is the only fruit that has its seeds on the outside?
The strawberry
What is an example of a boundary that you have for yourself?
This answer is subjective - boundaries may vary.
Examples: No smoking/drinking, no cheating, not allowing someone to disrespect me, no raising your voice at me, no physical contact, having personal space etc.
What is the difference between a healthy and an unhealthy conflict?
A conflict is healthy when it is handled in a safe and respectful way. This can help us grow and strengthen relationships.
A conflict is unhealthy when it is not handled safely, and can result in outcomes that are rather dangerous. (Physical fights etc.)
In a URL address bar, what does WWW stand for?
World Wide Web
What sport is Serena Williams known for?
Tennis
The Statue of Liberty was given by which country to the United States of America?
France
Can expectations and boundaries change depending on how close someone is to you? How? Give an example.
Yes, expectations and boundaries can change depending on how close someone is to you. There are differences between the expectations and boundaries that are held for close friends and families, versus acquaintances and strangers.
Any example that shows difference between the two groups: sharing secrets, physical touch, having conversations, sharing food, etc.
What are three reasons for conflicts that people your age may experience?
Any answer is acceptable.
Examples: relationship problems, disagreements, stealing, video game arguments, friend issues, etc.
What elements make up Water?
H2O
What is the hardest type of rock?
Who invented the lightbulb?
Thomas Edison
If someone breaks your expectations or crosses a boundary, how can you respond?
Any answer that displays a healthy way of responding to a broken expectation or crossed boundary.
Examples: Communication/confrontation/conversation, understanding, acceptance, forgiveness, change in closeness, distancing, etc.
Name three strategies to deal with conflicts in a healthy way.
Any of the following three:
Be Calm
Think About The Other Person As A Person, Not A Problem
Know Your Goal
Communicate Clearly
Listen
Find Something to Agree On
What is the most expensive city to live in in the world?
New York City
What is the tiny piece of the end of a shoelace called?
Aglet