Definitions
This is consistent action, not just words, reflected in everyday gestures from small acts of kindness to unwavering support during tough times.
True Love
This must exist in every strong relationship.
Respect
Trying to control who your partner talks to.
Controlling behavior
Listening without interrupting.
Active listening
"Charity suffereth long, and is kind…"
1 Corinthians 13
Strong excitement and attraction that can fade quickly.
Infatuation
When two people in a relationship intentionally help each other improve, mature, and become better spiritually, emotionally, and professionally.
Mutual growth
Constantly checking their phone without trust.
insecurity or lack of trust
Expressing feelings without blaming.
“I” statements
A relationship principle: “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?”
Amos 3:3
Focused on getting to know different people.
Dating
Staying faithful and loyal even when tempted.
Commitment
Using guilt to get what you want.
Manipulation
Discussing expectations before marriage.
Intentional conversation
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son,"
John 3:16
Moves with purpose and commitment and has a clear goal.
Courtship
Apologizing sincerely and correcting behavior.
Accountability
Threatening to leave every time there is disagreement.
Emotional instability
Solving problems together instead of competing.
Teamwork
" Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends"
John 15:13
Love that seeks nothing in return and is patient and kind.
Charity
Love that is shown more by actions than by words.
Consistent behavior
Physical or emotional harm in a relationship.
Abuse
Addressing conflict calmly instead of shouting.
Emotional maturity
"Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest"
Ecclesiastes 9:9