Swipe Smart
Red Flag Rundown
Think Before You Text
Toxic or Not?
Green Flags
100

This is a popular app that lets you "swipe right" to like someone's profile

What is Tinder?

100

Constant jealousy and checking in could be red flag, not this.

What is love?

100

It's okay to do this when someone makes you uncomfortable online.

What is Block them?

100

Your partner tells you they're always right and you're overreacting- this might be a sign of this.

What is a toxic relationship?

100

A green flag: your partner does this when you set boundaries.

What is respect them? 

200

Meeting someone from an app for the first time? You should always choose this type of location.

What is a public place?

200

A red flag where someone showers you with excessive affection early on.

What is love bombing?

200

Before sharing photos or messages, make sure of this about the person.

What is trust or knowing them well?

200

You're afraid to speak your mind around your partner. This isn't normal- this is called this.

What is fear-based control?

200

A relationship where both people can talk openly and feel safe has this kind of communication.

What is honest or open communication?

300

If someone avoids video chatting or meeting in person, they might be doing this.

What is catfishing?

300

Someone who discourages you from seeing family and friends may be trying to do this.

What is isolate you?

300

Being pressured to send explicit content is not flattery- it's this.

What is coercion?

300

A healthy disagreement involves listening. A toxic one involves yelling or this. 

What is belittling or name-calling?

300

A green flag: They listen without interrupting and show interest in your thoughts and feelings. This is called what?

What is active listening?

400

Sharing these too early, like your address or financial info, can out your safety at risk.

What is personal information?

400

This red flag involves twisting facts to make you question your memory.

What is gaslighting?

400

Healthy relationships allow space- constant texting and needing replies instantly can indicate this issue.

What is insecurity or control?

400

When a partner constantly threatens to hurt themselves if you leave or don't do what they want, this form of manipulation is not love- it is ?

What is emotional blackmail?

400

A green flag: You feel comfortable being this version of yourself, without fear or judgment. 

What is your authentic self?

500

The percentage of new online dating profiles are estimated to be fake, created with dishonest or harmful intentions.

What is 10%?

500

A pattern of intense highs and lows, walking on eggshells, and emotional control may be signs of this.

What is emotional abuse?

500

If someone demands your passwords or phone access, they are violating this key relationship value.

What is privacy or trust?

500

When a partner blames you for their outbursts, saying " You made me do this", they are avoiding this key relationship trait.

What is taking accountability?

500

A major green flag: when conflict happens, they seek. this rather than trying to "win" the argument.

What is resolution or understanding?