Introductions
How long should a proper handshake last?
About 2–3 seconds, or one to two gentle shakes.
Should your napkin go in your shirt?
No. A napkin should always be placed on your lap.
Where is the napkin placed in a basic table setting?
To the left of the plate or on the lap after sitting.
What does good posture at the table show?
Respect, attentiveness, and confidence.
What is the ideal distance between two people before initiating a handshake?
About an arm’s length (roughly 18 inches per person, creating about 3 feet total).
When should you place your napkin in your lap?
As soon as you sit down.
If the knife and spoon are not on the napkin, where do they go in a table setting?
The knife goes to the right of the plate with the blade facing inward and the spoon goes to the right of the knife.
What should you do with your phone during a meal?
Silence it and put it away.
Should you use two hands during a handshake?
Usually no—stick to one hand unless you intentionally want to show extra warmth.
Is it okay to put your elbows on the table while eating?
No, but it is okay between courses or after the meal.
Where are dessert utensils placed if set before the meal begins?
Above the plate.
What should you do if someone asks you a question while you're chewing?
Gesture that you’ll respond, then finish chewing before speaking.
Whose name should you say first when introducing someone to another?
The higher status person - i.e. "Ms. More Important, I'd like to introduce you to Mr. Less Important.
What do you say if you need something at the table?
“May you please pass the ___?”
If utensils are placed on the napkin, what is the correct order?
Fork, knife (blade facing fork), then spoon.
Why is smiling important during a handshake?
It shows warmth, friendliness, and eagerness to connect.
What is one thing you should ALWAYS say when leaving a conversation?
“Nice meeting you” or “Thank you.”
What should you do before starting to eat?
Wait until everyone is served or the host begins.
Where should the water glass be placed?
Above the knife or at a 45-degree angle to the right
What is an example of a polite greeting?
“It’s a pleasure to meet you.”