Etiquette
Why do we care about etiquette and manners?
It shows respect to others and shows others that you have respect for yourself.
When setting a table, the fork goes on this side of the plate.
The left.
When a lady arrives at and/or leaves the table, a gentleman should…
Stand up and help her with her chair.
True or False
A gentleman or lady never boasts about their accomplishments.
What is true.
True or False
While on a date, it’s OK to spend most of the time looking at your phone.
False
Your boss has invited you to dinner at a nice restaurant. Which dress code should you adhere to?
Black Tie
Business Casual
Beachwear
Dress to impress and dress for the occasion.
You should never put your elbows here while eating.
What is the table.
Jenna is expecting an important phone call from Ray during dinner. She should…
Electronics must not make an appearance at the table. If expecting an important call, ensure your phone is on silent, when a call comes, discreetly check it, and politely excuse yourself if you must answer.
When meeting someone for the first time, a lady or gentleman does this as a polite way to greet them.
Introduce yourself (and others with you) and offer a handshake or a smile and a hello.
To avoid awkwardness, it’s a good idea to choose this kind of place for a first date.
What is a neutral or public place like an ice cream shop or casual restaurant.
Jenna has a 4:00 pm appointment with Ray. She’s running a few minutes behind. What should Jenna do?
First, Jenna should make every effort to be early to begin with. If running late, call or message Ray to let him know.
When passing items around the table, the standard etiquette is to do this…
Always pass food to the right (counterclockwise)
Before starting to eat your meal, you should wait until all other guests at the table have…
Been served or the host/guest of honor indicates it‘s OK to start eating.
When in a group setting, if you sense someone is being left out of the conversation, a lady or gentleman should do this…
Bring them into the conversation by asking them a question.
When picking up or dropping off a date, you should…
Walk them to/from their door unless other arrangements have been prearranged. (Also, make sure your car is clean)
If you are first to arrive at a door and notice others behind you, what should you do?
Hold the door open and politely greet them as they enter.
When dining out, you should do this with your napkin…
Put it on your lap when you arrive at the table and put it on your chair if you must excuse yourself from the table.
If you must leave the table during a meal for any reason (restroom, phone call, etc.) you should…
Politely excuse yourself and make every effort to quickly return so others are not waiting for you too long.
When someone compliments them a gentleman or lady responds by doing this…
What is thanking them and accepting the compliment graciously.
If going on a date, this person should pay…
The person who initiated the date. (The person asking pays)
When having a conversation with someone, it is polite to do these things…
Maintain eye contact, avoid monopolizing the conversation, and avoid interrupting them when they are speaking.
When bread is served at a meal, how should you eat it?
Place the bread and a small amount of butter on your plate. When ready to eat, tear a bite-sized piece off the bread, butter it if desired, and then enjoy.
It’s the polite way to ask someone to pass an item at the table.
Will you please pass the______? Avoid reaching across the table or other guests.
A gentleman or lady never forgets to do this after attending a hosted event, receiving a gift, or being helped…
What is offer your thanks personally or write a thank you card.
When your date is talking this is the best way to show you are paying attention…
What is maintain eye contact and listen actively.