Pass the Politeness
Online IQ
Mood Matters
Home Base Habits
Wild Card
100

When you sit down at the table, what is the first thing you should do with your napkin?

What is "place it on your lap"

100

This 13-letter term describes the "trail" of data, posts, and "likes" you leave behind online that can be traced by future employers.

What is a Digital Footprint.

100

This 10-letter word describes a conversation where one person does all the talking, which is considered a major social error.

What is A Monologue.

100

This is the best time to do a chore your parents asked you to do.

The first time they ask (without needing a reminder).

100

This is the 12-letter term for being a "good sport" even when you lose a game or competition.

What is Graciousness?
200

 If you must leave the table temporarily during a meal, where should you place your napkin?

What is "on your chair"

200

In a text or email, using this specific formatting is considered the digital equivalent of "shouting" and is generally seen as aggressive.

What is ALL CAPS.

200

This psychological concept refers to the ability to stay focused on a conversation even when you are excited to share your own thought.

What is Active Listening (or Impulse Control). 

200

Doing this small task after a meal shows you appreciate the person who cooked.

 Clearing your plate (and others' plates) and putting them in the dishwasher.

200

If you realize you are going to be late to an event, what is the most polite action to take?


Call or text the person waiting as soon as possible to let them know.

300

If you accidentally drop a piece of silverware on the floor in a restaurant, what is the correct way to handle it?

 "Leave it and ask the server for a new one"

300

This term describes the act of posting something intentionally vague or emotional to bait others into asking "What's wrong?"

What is Vaguebooking (or Attention-seeking).

300

This 10-letter word describes a person who can adapt their thinking to see a problem from multiple sides.

What is Perspective (or Flexible Thinking). 

300

Why is it important to "check in" via text if your plans change while you're out?

It shows respect for their peace of mind and safety concerns.

300

Why is it important to introduce people who don't know each other when you are the common friend?


It makes everyone feel included and reduces social anxiety.

400

If someone asks you a question while you have a mouth full of food, what is the best way to respond?

Wait until you finish chewing and swallow before speaking (never speak with food in your mouth). 

400

Instead of "ghosting" (disappearing without a word), what is the polite way to tell someone you are too busy to talk right now?


Send a "holding" text (e.g., "Hey! I'm super busy with homework/practice, I'll get back to you later tonight").

400

Instead of saying "I have to do this," what simple word change can shift your mindset to be more positive?


Changing "have to" to "get to."

400

Before you head out to a friend's house, you should always ask your parents this question.


"Is there anything you need me to do before I go?"

400

When is it appropriate to check your phone while dining with others?


Ideally never; it should be put away to show respect to those you are with.

500

 If you need the salt shaker but it is at the far end of the table, what is the polite way to get it?

Ask the person closest to it, "Please pass the salt" (never reach across someone else’s plate). 

500

If you are at a party or event and want to post a group photo, what should you do before tagging everyone in the picture?


Ask permission (they may not want their location or appearance shared publicly).

500

This "glass" metaphor describes someone who looks at the bright side of a situation?

 

 "Glass half full."

500

 If a family member is excited about something you find boring, the polite thing to do is this.


 Listen and be supportive anyway because it matters to them

500

Before posting something online, why should you consider the "permanence" of your content?


Because it can affect future college admissions or job prospects.