True or False?
Distract Yourself
Relax Your Body
Name That Coping Skill
Needs: Safety, Love and Belonging, Power/Esteem, Fun, Freedom
100

It's possible to feel more than one feeling at a time.

TRUE

100

You're bored in the car and your parents and siblings are starting to get annoyed by you asking "Are we there yet?" What's something you can do in the car when you're bored to entertain you?

Various responses! Listening to music, talking to your siblings, taking a nap, counting cars, etc.

100

Close your eyes and imagine a relaxing scene. What's yours?

Everyone will have a different answer.

100

In through your nose, out through your mouth.

Deep breathing.

100

When Angela needs reassurance she will still have a place to sleep at night, she's expressing a need for...

Safety

200

1) I feel like you're being a jerk right now. 

2) I feel really hurt when you talk to me that way. 

Sentence 1 is the better "I" Statement.

FALSE

200

The act of smiling can make you feel better. What makes you smile?

Various responses-there's no wrong answer here!

200

What's a physical activity you can do to cool off when you're angry?

Jumping jacks, running, stretching, dancing, etc.

200

Leaving the group to calm your body, your thoughts, and try to change your feelings.

Walking away, taking space.

200

When Oscar repeatedly looks at his phone to see if any of his friends have sent him a message, he may be experiencing a need for...

Love and Belonging

300

Our time, bodies, and the treatment we will tolerate from others are all things we can have boundaries around.

TRUE

300

Music can help to distract us and help us cool down when we're upset. What type of music calms you down?

Various responses-there's no wrong answers!

300
Moving your body can get out some negative feelings. Show us how you shake it out!

No wrong answers here!

300

Using words to describe your thoughts and feelings to someone you trust.

Talking it out.

300

When Laura wants to do well in school, she has a need for...


Power/Esteem

400

Boundaries can't change over time.

FALSE

400

Laughter is the best medicine! What makes you laugh?

Various responses--there's no wrong answers!

400

Stretching can help us relax when we're feeling stressed. Show us your favorite stretch!

There's no wrong answers!

400

1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10

Counting.

400

When Erin feels as though she wants more choices in her life, she's expressing a need for...

Freedom

500

Ignoring your feelings makes them go away.

False. Ignoring feelings only makes them grow more intense. Like a pressure valve, they will slowly seep out or explode in unintended and potentially harmful ways.

500

Deep breathing exercises can help you calm down when you are upset. Show us how to do some deep breaths!

In through the nose, out through the mouth. 

500
Everyone try this together: Relax your head and let it hand down like a rag doll. Slowly roll it from one side and hold for a few seconds; roll it towards your back so your chin is in the air, then slowly roll it towards your other side and hold it for a few seconds. Slowly roll it back to the front and let your head hang. How did that feel?

Let us know how that felt!

500

Using the 5 senses (sight, hearing, touch, taste, smell) to help calm you down.

Grounding exercise.

500

When Toby finds himself feeling bored and under stimulated, he may have a need for...

Fun