Relationships
Consent or Not Consent
Communication Styles
WILD CARD
100

True or false: An example of out of control love is : non-stop text/phone calls/chat messages, thinking about the person all the time, never giving each other any personal space or time, being jealous of the person’s other friends and/or family 

True

100

Unwanted Touching

Not consent

100

What communication style does a bully use?

Aggressive

100

Girls Inc was founded in 1864.

True!

200

Selfless Love: Love that is based on giving and expecting something else in return. True or False?

False

200

Someone is tickling you. You are laughing but saying stop out loud

Not consent

200

Passive, Aggressive, or Assertive? If you ask Paula what movie she wants to see, she's most likely to say, "I don't know — what do you want to see?" She usually lets others decide things, but later she regrets not saying what she wanted. It bothers her that her friends do most of the talking. But when Paula tries to break into the conversation, she speaks so softly that others talk over her without realizing.

Passive

200

Girls Inc inspires all girls to be ________, ________, and ______________.

Strong, smart, and bold.

300

List three key qualities to have in a healthy romantic relationship

Answers may vary. May include

—trust —communication —honesty —equality —respect —responsibility —shared interests —happiness —humor —love and affection —understanding —friendship —caring for each other —support —freedom or space (not crowding each other)

300

Setting boundaries and good communication before kissing your partner

Consent

300

Give me an example of a situation where someone is being assertive?

answers may vary but must have a calm tone, direct statements, and clear communication of feelings and thoughts without raising tone or voice

300

What is 29 x 32?

928

400

List three things that could happen in an unhealthy romantic relationship.

Answers may vary but may include

—jealousy —sexual demands or sexual pressure —miscommunication —abuse or violence —immaturity —unplanned pregnancy —age (too old) —HIV/ other sexually transmitted infection —disagreements about sexual limits —drugs or alcohol use - lacking consent

400

silence, or not responding-The absence of a No

Not consent. You need an enthusiastic YES!

400

True or False: Making eye contact is an example of being aggressive.

False. While you can make eye contact while being aggressive, it is not a sign that someone is going to be aggressive towards you.

400

What is the 2nd Bill of Rights?

Girls have the right to express themselves with originality and enthusiasm

500

True or False: You lose your ability to consent when you start dating someone and you're in a relationship.

FALSE. Whether girlfriend or boyfriend or just a friend, you always have the right to consent.

500

True or False: The Age of Consent is the age at which a person is deemed by Illinois law to be capable of consenting to, and engaging in, sexual acts. In Illinois, this age is 17.

True

500

True or False: Being aggressive makes people want to be around us. and builds positive relationships

False

500
In our Sisterhood session, we discussed important qualities that should be a part of the relationship. What does the HERR acronym stands for what? (______, ______, Respect, ________)

Honesty, Equality, Respect, and Responsibility