Positive Coping Skills
Negative Coping Skills
Cues
Emotions/Feelings
Discipline Stratigies
100

Making your chest rise and your stomach fall

A. What is gravity

B. What is combustion

C. What is Breathing exercises

What is Breathing exercises

100

I want to hit someone

A. What is boxing

B. What is physical abuse

C. What is karate

What is physical abuse

100

Being aware of your body. 

A. What is Sensations

B. What is being in the present state

C. What is body awareness

What is body awareness

100

I am crying

What is saddness

100

I'm not going to react to your negative behavior. a- time out b. ignoring c. thoughtfulness

What is Ignoring

200

Grabbing onto your desk and feel the surface

A. What is Grounding

B. What is emotion

C. What is Questions and Answers

What is Grounding

200

I want to yell at someone

A. What is whispering

B. What is verbal abuse

C. What is the lack of coping

What is verbal abuse

200

I'm clinching my fists

A. What is ready to fight

B. What is anger

C. What is hiding something

What is anger

200

I am smiling

What is happiness

200

You have earned a trip to Disney Land for your good behavior - a. gladness b. awareness c. reward

What is a REWARD

300

Calming the mind and relaxing the body

A. What is grounding

B. What are meditation techniques

C. What is relaxation

What is meditation techniques

300

I want to punch a hole in the wall

A. What is being out of control

B. What is destruction of property

C. What is construction

What is destruction of property

300

I'm pacing the floor

A. What is sadness

B. What is impatient

C. What is worry

What is worry

300

I am shaking

What is being afraid

300

You can pick one of three choices for your consequence. - a. boundary based discipline. b. choice reward. c. this is my choice. 

What is boundary based Discipline

400

The physical approach to coping

A. What is meditation

B. What is exercise

C. What is touching

What is exercise

400

 being unable to make a decision

A. What is over-analyzing

B. What is doubt

C. What is unsure of self

What is over-analyzing

400

My heart hurts

A. What is a heart attack

B. What is feeling sad

C. What is falling in love

What is feeling sad

400

I am successful

What is being confident

400

Standing in a corner for 10 minutes.  --- a. what is physical discipline. b. what is corporal punishment. c. what is time out

What is time out

500

If you can’t change the problem, change your outlook.

A. What is consequences

B. What is thought distortion outcomes

C. What is time out

What is thought distortion outcomes

500

Alcohol and drug use

A. What is a margarita

B. What is substance abuse

C. What is alcohol 

What is substance abuse

500

My face is smiling

A. What is face distortion

B. What is emotions

C. What is being happy

What is being happy

500

I am vibrant

What is being energized

500

I'm going to show you how to put up your toys. --- a. what is show and tell. b. what is modeling. c. what is a pat on the back. 

What is modeling