SET UP
THE PRIVATE VICTORY
RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNT
PUBLIC VICTORY
RENEWAL
100
Your point of view, frame of reference or belief.
What is a paradigm?
100
Keep promises to yourself Do small acts of kindness Be gentle with yourself Be honest Renew yourself Tap into your talents
What is a Personal Bank Account Deposit (PBA)?
100
Break promises Keep to yourself Gossip and break confidences Don't listen Be arrogant Set false expectations
What are Relationship Bank Account withdrawls?
100
This is achieved when two or more people are working together towards a solution.
What is synergy?
100
Physical-Body Mental- Brain Emotional-Heart Spiritual-Soul
What are the four dimensions of life that need renewal?
200
There are 7.
How many habits are there?
200
How we respond to what happens to us.
What is circle of control?
200
Everyone can win
What is think win-win?
200
Ignorance, cliques,and prejudice blocks celebration.
What is a roadblock to celebrating differences?
200
Things that you can do something about: The environment – recycle your plastic Personal finances – learn new skills to find a job or earn a promotion Physical health – exercise for 20 minutes daily
What are examples of the Circle of Influence?
300
Self, Friend, school, work, and stuff are the principles.
What are the principles of life?
300
A motto that states what your life is about.
What is a personal mission statement?
300
Going all day being positive and only saying positive things about others.
What is being loyal?
300
Shun it, tolerate it, or celebrate it.
What are the three ways of approaching of diversity?
300
Everyday you should have this victory.
What is a private victory?
400
friend-centered, stuff-centered,boyfriend/girlfriend centered,school-centered, parent-centered, principle-centered
What are the paradigms of life?
400
The procrastinator- urgent/important The prioritizer- important/not urgent The yes-man- not important/urgent The slacker-not important/not urgent
What are the time quadrants ( things we spend our time in)?
400
Positive interactions with the people around you?
What is relationship bank account?
400
Examples are body language,tone and feeling, words.
What are signs of genuine listening?
400
Physical Spiritual Mental Social
What are the dimensions of renewal?
500
Things that we do repeatedly; some are good and some are bad.
What is a habit?
500
Discipline
What is the ingredient of success?
500
Communication
What is the most important skill in life?
500
Selective, Self-centered, spacing out, pretend, and word.
What are the five poor listening skills?
500
The whole is greater than its parts.
What is synergy?