Social media
What are two ways social media can make us measure how much attention we receive?
likes, views, followers, comments or replies
True or false: modesty is only about the clothes you wear?
false
Who is the Muslim women discussed in the session as an example of knowledge, dignity and haya?
Aisha (RA)
According to the session, where should a Muslim girl’s worth ultimately come from?
Allah (SWT), rather than peoples approval.
What is the main question everyone is encouraged to ask themselves?
”who am i trying to please?”
A girl posts a photo and gets very few likes. According to the talk, what has actually changed about their worth?
Nothing. Her worth has not changed.
give 3 things modestly can involve besides clothing.
how we carry ourselves, speak, what we look at, what we post, how much attention we seek or how we interact with others.
What does haya mean In the context of the talk?
modesty, shyness and a sense of dignity.
Fill in the blank: “modesty isn’t about hiding who you are. It’s about knowing your________.”
selfworth.
True or false: the session says you need to delete social media and stop taking pictures to become modest.
FALSE.
Why can basing our self-worth on other peoples opinions be harmful?
peoples options constantly change, so our confidence and self worth can constantly rise and fall.
Finish the statement: the goal isn’t simply to create ag girl who looks modesty; The goal is to develop a girl who’s ______ is modest.
Character.
Complete the Hadith mentioned in the talk: “Modesty is part of_________”.
Faith.
What 3 positive beliefs does the talk encourage girls to have about themselves?
“i am valuable. I am capable. I have something meaningful to contribute”
What is the first question in the 3 question test?
”what am i doing this?”
Name the word that describes the trap where we see other girls online and start thinking, “what’s wrong with me”?
comparison
Name 4 qualities mentioned as part of a good Muslim character.
modesty, patience, gentleness, forgiveness, tolerance, cheerfulness, truthfulness, trustworthiness, sincerity and purity of heart.
Aisha (RA) showed that being modest does NOT mean you have to be _____ and______? (2 things mentioned)
weak and silent.
What can having a strong sense of self help you choices come from instead of pressure to fit in?
confidence and self respect.
Name all 3 questions in the in the 3 question test?
1- what am I doing this?
2- who am i hoping will notice?
3- would i still do it if nobody could see me?
If the same photo gets 3 likes and then hypothetically gets 500 likes, what acually changed?
only the number of people’s reactions, not the girl‘s face, personality or value.
Can someone be confident, ambitious, have a strong personality AND still be modest?
YESSS!!!! Confidence is not the opposite of modesty.
What characteristics of Aisha (RA) show that confidence and modesty can exist together?
she was knowledgeable, confident and strong, taught men and women,, and still maintained modesty and dignity.
According to the session, what is more important that outward appearance or wealth?
our hearts and deeds.
What happens when we stop depending on other peoples approval and focus on pleasing Allah instead?
we become free from needing everyone else to approve of us, and our worth is no longer controlled by peoples opinions or attention.