SOCIAL
Your friend accidentally does something you don't like, and your feelings are hurt. What do you do?
Stop. Breath and relax. Observe: why are you upset? are their feelings valid? was it intentional? do they care about you? Proceed: what do you want to do next after thinking carefully?
Paint a picture of what the feeling "calm" means to you. How do you practice being calm?
a relaxing vacation, a bath, solving problems, listening to music, laying down, watching TV, exercise.
Someone from roblox asks you for your age and school name. What do you do?
Never share ANY personal details. They can easily identify you with the smallest amount of information and find out where you live, your parents' information, and so much more.
Your sibling tells you a secret. When is it ok to tell someone else?
ONLY TELL YOUR PARENT/OLDER SIBLING:
If they tell you it's ok to share, if they are a danger to themselves or someone else, if it involves illegal things or their safety.
other answers?
You get in trouble for something that you and your sibling both do, but they don't get in trouble. What do you do? Vice versa?
Don't snitch on them. Take one for the team. Tell your sibling how frustrated you are.
Step up and admit fault to your parent to show your sibling that you support them.
How much information do you share with friends? What don't you share?
everyone's valid!
You feel overwhelmed with schoolwork and start to cry. What is a mature next step?
Relax my breathing. Ask myself when I can do instead of worrying. Take action and make an effort to resolve my overwhelmed feelings. Ask for help. Break tasks into tiny steps. Take short breaks.
A roblox player offers in-game items if you share your password. Why do they do this and what should you do?
They often want to try and hack your account or steal your information. Sharing your password makes your account more vulnerable to be hacked by others, shared, and stolen from. Never share your password to anyone you don't personally know and trust.
At school, your sibling wants to have a private conversation with you. You're with your friends. What is a mature way to handle it? What if you want to have the conversation?
Excuse yourself to your sibling's friends. Respectfully ask your sibling if you could speak with them. Keep it brief, since you interrupted them. Thank your sibling for listening and their friends for giving you the time.
Ask your friends to give you a minute to speak with your sibling. Walk away to a private space and listen.
How can you be more trustworthy?
Be honest, even when you're wrong. Show people that you are capable of changing and sticking to it. Accept consequences without trying to change them. Tell the facts honestly before being asked. Take accountability.
Your friend decides to do something that you disagree with. How do you handle it?
Ask them about why they chose it, accept their answer, and respect their decision.
You feel sad for no reason. How can you figure out why and feel better?
Check sleepiness/hunger levels. Journal. Talk to someone you trust. Be kind to yourself.
Someone online or in a game asks, "are you a boy or a girl?" Is that a safe question?
No it's not. Never answer any personal identity questions because they can lead to people targeting you with bad intentions. Ask yourself, why do they need to know who you are in order to play a game? They don't.
You and your sibling both want the same thing. How do you solve it fairly?
Rock, paper, scissors, take turns, compromise. Remember, mom will always make sure you both get what you need and want so there's no use in fighting. THAT'S maturity.
You realize you made a mistake and hurt someone. What is the mature way to handle it?
Go to them and ask for their forgiveness. Explain why you were wrong and what you will commit to doing better in the future. After, give them space to come to you when they are ready. Let them know you care about them and care about fixing your mistake.
You and your friend get into an argument, and you both say hurtful things about each other. What do you do?
Evaluate the friendship. Does this happen often? Do you want to be in a friendship that makes you feel very stressed? Can you both forgive and move on? Should you? Are they the type of friend that's worth having you? Are you the type of friend that's worth having them?
You're angry about a situation. What is a healthy way to handle it? (With others and yourself)
Calm your tone, relax your mind, use "I feel" statements in conversations, respectfully request a change, accept what's happening, avoid blaming yourself or others, recognize that you're actually hurt instead of angry. Find ways to de-stress.
What are some signs everyone should know when avoiding online creeps that prey on young kids?
They try to give you things/gifts to lure you in, they act childish and think "Adults and kids can be friends." False. Only in special circumstances. They pretend they know you or pretend to be someone else. They ask personal information for no reason. Others answers?
You feel unloved by your sibling. What should you do? What is a mature way to handle your feelings?
Talk to them when you aren't angry. Ask them how they feel instead of assuming. Invite them to do something where you can strengthen your bond.
What does "maturity" look like?
Putting myself in other's shoes, being open-minded, honesty, kindness to myself and others, etc
Other opinions?
Act out an issue you had with a friend. How did you handle it? What could you have done differently?
opinions!
You feel left out. How do you normally handle this? What is a more mature way to handle it?
Communicate that I'd like to be involved and show support for others that are. Wait my turn. Create my own fun!
Is it ok to copy what you see online?
A lot of things online are fake or skits made to seem real. Always consider that something you see online may not be realistic and do your own research. Smart, mature people check the facts and make their own opinions based on reality. The internet is there to entertain you. Don't let it change you.
How can siblings be allies together and become closer? What will you do more of to become closer with your siblings?
Do fun activities together, check on each other, help with responsibilities, support them when they need it, reach out to them often, tell them you love them and are grateful for them, give them gifts or hugs
You think an adult's decision is unfair. How do you handle this maturely?
Gather the facts. Speak calmly and clearly to another trusted adult. Respectfully suggest solutions or other options.