Positive or negative self-talk?
Things we have control or no control over
Positive or negative coping skill?
Scenarios/Terms
Small Problem or Big Problem
1

I will study harder next time.

What is positive self-talk

1

How long something will last for

Something we do no have control over.

1

Writing in a journal, drawing

What are positive coping skills

1

Tell us about a recent experience when you used positive coping skills?

1

Losing a game at recess

Small Problem

2

Why does this always happen to me.  I'm such a failure.

What is negative self-talk

2

Your attitude

Something we have control over

2

Punching a hole in the wall, yelling and screaming.

What are negative coping skills

2

Tell us about about a recent experience when you used negative coping skills?

2

Getting into a Car Accident

Big Problem

3

I will calm down first before I respond.  I don't want to say something I'll regret. 

What is positive self-talk

3

The actions of others

Something we do not have control over

3

Deep breathing, positive self-talk

What are positive coping skills
3

What can happen if someone thinks too much about future events?  

They may become anxious.

3

Someone is cheating at a game

Small Problem

4

He makes me so angry to the point where I want to scream at him!

What is negative self-talk

4

Finding fun stuff to do

Things we have control over

4

Saying negative things to others when upset, blaming others for your actions. 

What are negative coping skills.

4

What can happen to a person if they focus on bad events that happened in the past?

They may become sad.  

4

Someone broke their leg playing soccer

Big Problem

5

My math teacher is not fair.  She's always picking on me.  

What is negative self-talk

5

How others react

Things we do not have control over

5

Exercising, going for a walk, using a stress toy

What are positive coping skills.

5

What coping skills can you use to help you feel less anxious before a classroom presentation?

5

I did not understand how to solve the math problem right away

Small Problem