Body feels
Brain/Emotion
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How does the other person feel
Strategy
100

I'm shivering, I have goosebumps

Cold or super scared

100

Name 2 ways your body might feel if you are sleepy

heavy eyes, slow brain, heavy muscles, can't stop yawning


100

You forgot your homework but its not due for another 2 days

small / glitch

100

You won the game and keep talking about it in front of Joe, and his team lost that same game

Sad.  Be a good winner and a good loser. 

100

What is a strategy I can use when you feel frustrated ?

go for a silent walk, ask for help, look at pictures on the phone, come up with another one 

200
Symptoms: tight chest, fast brain, figity hands, pacing feet, antsy muscles

Anxious

200

Name 2 ways your body might feel if you are hungry

stomach growling, irritated, headache, 


200

There is a tornado that is supposed to land in 3 minutes.

huge

200

You got a really great report card. How do your parents/guardians feel? Your answer must be something more than "good" or "happy"

Proud


200

What is a strategy I can use so that I won't get into sensory overload?

put on headphones, ask  for quiet, take a break in a quiet space for 5 minutes

300

Loose muscles, focused brain, talking voice, loose toes, non-antsy muscles

Calm / Content / Relaxed

300

Describe how your body might feel if you are thirsty

Dry mouth, dry throat, head hurts, trouble thinking


300

Someone tells you to try vaping on the bus

Medium or more

300

Your friend comes over and he does all the activities you want. When he asks if you can do something different, you get frustrated and say "no". How does he feel?

Frustrated, irritated, confused, mad, he might not want to go over your house again.  Friendship activities  should include things both friends might like to do whenever possible

300

What is a strategy I can use if I feel anxious

listen to music, ask questions to increase predictability, deep pressure menu, go for a walk

400

Clenched hands, curled toes, hot head, tight muscles, grumbly voice

Frustrated / beginning to get mad / starting stage of angry


400

Describe 2 ways your body might act if you are hot

sweat on skin, cranky brain

400

You got caught using chat gpt on your english essay

medium

400

You had a sleepover at your house with 3 friends. You talk about it in front of another friend that was not invited.  You also post about it on social media. How does the uninvited friend feel?   

Excluded, left out, sad. If you are not going to invite that person, don't talk about it around that person. 

400

What is a strategy I can use if I am really bored but if I say that the teacher will yell at me?

Use my inner coach to say "power through this, there's only X more minutes."  Social fake through it, take a quick walk and return, silently complain in my head

500

too much ears, fast brain, shut-off voice, full-body soreness

Sensory Overwhelm (overwhelmed, overstimulated) 
500

Name 7 different emotions

happy, sad, scared, angry, frustrated, irritated, excited, loving, glad, overwhelmed, disappointed.... 

500

You want to go to the dance but no one has asked you

small/medium

500

You blurt the answer to every question or comment the teacher makes in your English class.  How might some of the other kids in the class feel?

irritated, annoyed, frustrated, uncomfortable, they might have wanted to answer the question, or it could be a question the teacher didn't really want an answer to (ex: why don't you take out your books?")

500
What is a strategy I can use if I lose a game, or don't get someplace first

Use my inner coach and say "no big deal, I can win or be first some other time, remember the problem/reaction size scale; small problem-small reaction, take a walk, ask for a quick break to reset.