Family
how many kids do u want and when do u want kids?
6-7
whose staying home with the kids or yall both just gonna work?
im not yo babysitter chat
what will ur home look like day to day?
home is where the heart is ahh
how to prioritize each other and how do u stay connected? this is what the instagram post says "weekly date night? time tgthr without phones? daily check ins?"
yeah this so cringe chat
how do u stay intentional throughout ur day to day life?
this is such an msa interview question im so funny but like lowkirkenuinely at the end of the day, everything goes back to ur intentions. being intentional is so important because it truly dictates ur life and keeps u grounded as a muslim. i know i made this as a joke but its important to be intentional especially with these things because yk marriage is half ur deen and u want half ur deen to be grounded in the right intentions. Actions are according to intentions, and everyone will get what was intended. so just remembering that u are doing this to please allah and ur answering these questions and going about this process with the most sincere intentions inshallah :)
parenting style? how u discipling the bacha?
chappal
whose paying for what? is one person primary provider?
#girl boss #househusband
what kind of life do u want? city or suburbs? renting or buying? traveling?
living in a van and traveling to a different country every day and posting it on youtube type
how do u make up after a fight like do u need space or talk it out?
toughen up lowk
What's your favorite surah or ayah and why?
i love this question hehe
raising kids? school, deen, whats the move?
whose career takes priority? or are they equal?
#pay men more
are u guys on the same page about namaz, boundaries, and raising them around the masajid?
this actually hella important so im gonna let yall lock in
what do boundaries look like?
um idk
whats one thing that u want to improve on rn? like could be deen or character etc
alhamdulillah i have nothing to improve on
what role will families play? like how involved parents finna be? can they pu whnvr type and are we going to every family event type?
dont need the whole crazy mother in law trope
combining back accounts or seperate? thoughts on saving, spending, debt? any student loans, credit card debts, car payments?
its giving econ major
who cooks? who cleans? who does laundry? who handles repairs, errands, and mental load? splitting things evenly or dividing based on whose better at what?
#give men a break
when u get angry do u yell or give silent treatment? bring up the past? call each other names? involve other ppl? what is OFF limits?
oooh drama
What is something your father/mother did that you would do differently with your future family and why?
oooh deep
what if u cant have kids? what if ur kid has an issue before birth?
dont shoot the messenger but like fr tho infertility is a thing unforunately
what if one person gets job in another city?
the reuniting with my bf videos are so cringe
what if one u gets diagnosed with smthng rlly bad or get rlly sick? are u prepared to be a caregiver? what about mental health?
wait but this also rlly serious tho
deal breakers? what are absolute non negotiables? abuse? addiction? financial irresponsibility? neglect of deen?
ts could ruin ur life fr
If I lose my memory, what is the first thing you'd help me remember?'
so philosophical fr