Reading other's feelings
Empathy
Choosing empathetic behavior
Reasons for feelings
100

How would the following person feel? A boy on your baseball team dropped a fly ball and the other team won the game.

embarrassed, sad, mad, angry, disappointed,

100

The ability to recognize and relate to other people’s emotions and thoughts. Putting yourself in someone's shoes

Empathy 

100

Your friend keeps getting teased and bullied on the playground. What should you do to show empathy?

A. You stay away so that you don't get teased. B. You join in with the teasing so you'll look cool. C. You stick up for your friend. D. You find another friend.

100

What could have happened to make a person feel nervous ? 

A big test, first day of school, shy in front of others, parents are late picking them up, they have to do a presentation in front of other people, running a race, etc...

200

How would the following person feel? A boy is constantly getting teased on the bus for being chubby.

 embarrassed, sad, angry, mad, furious,

200

What are some characteristics of a person who shows empathy? 


great listening, caring, loving, observant, 

200

What could you say to show empathy? Your classmate forgot his/her homework at home and is very upset because they get a conduct mark.

What is I'm sorry that you forgot your work. I'd be upset to get a conduct mark too. I understand how you feel because you never forget your work. I know how hard you're trying to get an E in conduct and I'm sorry.

200

What is something that could cause a person to feel scared?

the dark, being alone at home, being lost in a store, being around a bully, a scary movie, pranks/jokes, clowns, dolls, dogs, insects, etc 

300

How would the following person feel? A girl in your class was chosen to sing a solo in the school musical and she went blank in front of the entire audience

What is embarrassed, shocked, nervous, shy, sad, upset, disappointed

300

What are some characteristics of a person who lacks empathy?

Does not listen to others, Argumentative attitude, Blaming others for mistakes, Can’t handle emotional situations

300

Your best friend is really excited because he just got a really cool video game. It was a game that you wanted. What could you say or do to show empathy?

A. You ask him if you can borrow it. B. You feel jealous so you change the subject so you don't have to talk about it. C. You go home and beg your parents to buy you one. D. You say, "That's great" and tell him he deserves getting such a cool game.

300

What could cause someone to feel angry?

someone broke something of their's, they were made fun of, someone hit/kicked/hurt them, they had to miss recess, they were blamed for something they didn't do, bullies, etc

400

Kelly's little sister went into her room while she was at school and ripped the pages out of her favorite book. How might Kelly feel about this?

angry, frustrated, mad, sad, confused, shocked, furious,

400

What are some do's and don'ts of showing empathy?

Do listen, try and understand what it's like for the other person, put yourself in his/her place, offer help or support. Don't ignore, tell him/her to not feel a certain way

400

Your friend is getting ready to go into the play-offs with her soccer team and she is pretty nervous. What can you say or do to show empathy?

You tell her you to understand how she feels because you were really nervous, too, before your big game last year.  

400

What could cause someone to feel confident?


they were given a compliment, other students wanted to be their partner, they won a race, they did a good job on their test or homework, etc  

500

Chris was determined to make a good grade on his spelling test so he studied every day after school for 45 minutes. He made an 89 on his spelling test. How might Chris feel about this?

angry, upset, confused, shocked, sad, mad, embarrassed, ashamed, disappointed, proud, happy, hopeless, hopeful

500

How can you practice empathy? 

  • Work on listening to people without interrupting
  • Pay attention to body language and other types of nonverbal communication
  • Try to understand people, even when you don't agree with them
  • Ask people questions to learn more about them and their lives
  • Be willing to be vulnerable, opening up about how you feel
  • Engage in new experiences, giving you better insight into how others in that situation may feel



500

Your mother comes home from work stressed out from a hard day. What could you say or do to show empathy?


A. Invite some friends over. B. You set the table and help her get dinner ready. C. You whine about her being grumpy. D. You turn up the tv.

500

What is something that could make someone feel uncomfortable?

Being around someone they dont like, being picked to present in front of class, being bullied, etc