Neutrality Slips and Reframes Game

Language Slips

100

That’s the best idea I’ve heard so far!

We’ve captured another idea. Who has a different perspective to add?

200

So, does anyone agree with Mary?

What other perspectives or ideas would people like to share?

300

I think John’s suggestion is more practical than the others.

We have a range of suggestions. Let’s explore the pros and cons together.

Body Language & Tone Slips

100

Nods enthusiastically whenever one participant speaks, neutral face with others

Maintain consistent expression; nod or acknowledge all speakers equally

200

Standing directly next to one participant’s flipchart notes, facing only them.

Move around the room, maintain open posture, and face the whole group

300

Using a warm, encouraging tone with one person, but flat tone with others

Keep tone steady and appreciative for all contributions

Process Discipline Slips

100

We don’t need to vote, it looks like everyone’s leaning toward Option A.

Let’s use dot-voting so everyone’s voice is represented in the decision.

200

Skipping silent brainstorming: “Let’s just talk it out instead.

Let’s take 3 minutes to write down ideas silently, then we’ll share them out.

300

Rewording participant ideas into facilitator’s phrasing

Capture contributions verbatim or ask: “Did I write that as you meant it?

Balanced Attention Slips

100

Always calling on the same 2–3 people first.

Use a round-robin or random order: “Let’s go around so we hear from everyone.

200

Letting one dominant voice run over quieter ones without intervention.

Thanks for sharing. I’d like to pause and invite others who haven’t spoken yet.

300

Ignoring a hand raised across the room while another participant is mid-story

Ignoring a hand raised across the room while another participant is mid-story