Fight Club
The two positions you can find yourself in regarding disagreements are...
What are RESPONDING and BRINGING UP?
The only GOOD humor feedback is...
What is LAUGHING WITH YOU?
Use THIS kind of humor wisely; overdoing it can make you seem insecure or sad.
What is SELF-DEPRECATION?
This social skill involves valuing others' feelings, opinions, privacy, and autonomy; it's the bedrock for healthy interactions.
What is RESPECT?
You find out your classmate sews their own clothes, and hear them talking about Project Runway. They are probably interested in...
What is FASHION?
What is one of the 1st and most important steps for both BRINGING UP and RESPONDING TO disagreements?
What is KEEP YOUR COOL?
These are people who don't enjoy or get humor.
What are JOKE HATERS?
This goes at the END of a joke.
What is the PUNCHLINE?
________ is the foundation, _________ are personal rules, and _______ is an active, ENTHUSIASTIC agreement or disagreement.
What are RESPECT, BOUNDARIES and CONSENT?
DAILY DOUBLE: There are ___ types of friendship and they are...
There are FOUR types of friendship and they are acquaintances, casual friends, regular friends and BEST FRIENDS.
When explaining your side of a disagreement, use THESE kind of statements.
What are "I" STATEMENTS?
These are three types of "jokes" you should avoid!
What are INSULTING, DIRTY/INDECENT, and INSIDE jokes?
The Five-Minute Rule is also known as THIS.
What is the KINDNESS RULE?
DAILY DOUBLE:
This social skill involves clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing permission to engage in an activity; it's an active "yes," not the absence of a "no".
What is CONSENT?
When trading information, don't do these three things.
What are:
Don't be a conversation hog; Don’t be an interviewer; and Don't get too personal at first?
When all else fails...
What is AGREE TO DISAGREE?
DAILY DOUBLE:
These are three things that make a joke APPROPRIATE or INAPPROPRIATE.
What are AGE, CONTEXT and TIMING?
The core foundation of humor is THIS which states that something is funny when it is perceived as wrong or threatening but also safe or harmless.
What is the BENIGN VIOLATION THEORY?
This social skill involves personal limits (physical, emotional, digital) that keep you safe; they are YOUR rules, not obligations for others to follow.
What are BOUNDARIES?
To assess the interest of the person you are talking to, ask these three questions.
What is:
Even if you don't think you've done anything wrong, it's important to say THIS.
What is "SORRY"/"I'M SORRY"?
Give 3 examples of someone laughing AT you. (HINT: there are MORE than 3)
Laugh and roll their eyes.; Look at Someone else then laugh.; Laugh BEFORE the joke is over.; Long pause before they laugh.; Laugh and make a face.; Laugh and point at you.; Laugh and shake their head no to someone else.; Make a sarcastic comment.
Exaggeration, juxtaposition, finding humor in the mundane, callback humor and inversion are all __________________.
What are TECHNIQUES FOR GENERATING HUMOR?
Why do respect, boundaries and consent matter?
They BUILD TRUST, PREVENT HARM and FOSTER HARMONY.
TRIPLE JEOPARDY: (MUST GET ALL ANSWERS TO SCORE)
List the 9 characteristics of good friendships.
1. Sharing of Common Interests
2. Kindness and Caring
3. Support
4. Mutual Understanding
5. Commitment and Loyalty
6. Honesty and Trust
7. Equality
8. Ability to Self-Disclose
9. Conflict Resolution