Healthy Relationships

Things Black People Say
Toxic

100

Healthy Relationships have NO conflict or disagreements

False

100

When you ask your Mom for some Mcdonalds

Do you have McDonald’s Money?

100

Girls response to their Man when caught talking to another guy

He’s like my brotherrrrrrr 

200

Which is the best communication in a healthy relationship: Passive, Assertive, or Aggressive?

Assertive

200

When crying after getting a whooped, black mothers will often say this to shut the child up

Stop crying before I give you something to cry about

200

when a person uses controlling and harmful behaviors to avoid responsibility

Manipulation 

300

Name two qualities found in a healthy relationship

(Respect, Communication, Equality, Compromise, Support, Good boundaries, Trust, etc.)

300

When black mothers take their black children to the store they will say this before they get inside.

when we get in this store, you bet' not ask for nothing"

300

excusing your hurtful behaviors or words by saying something like, “It was just a joke”

Gaslighting

400

Best Way to Solve issues in a relationship?

Communication

400

Black Moms will say this to their children when they ignore them or do not hear them talking. 

I know you hear me calling you

400

Why do people in relationships always arguing? 

Lack of communication.

500

All Healthy Relationships have kids and well stabled family 

No

500

When black children are caught singing songs word-for-word that they've heard on the radio, black mothers usually say

If you knew your schoolwork like you knew those songs, you'd be getting good grades