Parenting Styles
Name the style.
"Do whatever you want"
Permissive/Jelly fish
The process of sharing information, thoughts, and feelings...
Communication
Children who are _____________, take responsibility for their behaviour even when an adult is not watching.
Self Disciplined
True or False- Recognizing an adoptive child's homeland and culture is not necessary.
False!!
This is very important.
3 signs a person is listening
someone is nodding, eye contact, responding
The parenting style that is linked to the most positive outcomes for children long-term.
Authoritative Parenting / Backbone Family
What are 2 negative parenting patterns?
It is unrealistic to expect young children to learn and act on a rule the first time it is taught. They need...
Gentle reminders
True or False - The manner in which children are touched and shown affection varies from culture to culture.
True
2 things that get in the way when you are trying to listen?
interruption, loud music, tv, phone
This type of punishment is not an option
Physical punishment
This type of message explains without critisim.
"I Message"
The general rule is that timeouts should be....
one minute for each year of age
True or False: Storytelling is a way in which culture is transmitted from the older generation to the newer.
True!
What is the football analogy that can describe communication?
What is,...
quarterback "sender", football "message, receiver "listener"
This style of parenting tends to use punitive measures to stop inappropriate behaviour.
Authoritarian/Brickwall
Name 3 communication blockers between a parent and child.
Interrupting, name calling, sarcasm, avoiding, blaming, hogging the conversation, ignoring the other, threatening
The discipline directly linked to a child's behaviour.
Ex. A child threw their video game because they lost, now it is broken.
Natural consequences
True or False:
While some nations shared certain practices or adopted practices from other nations each Indigenous nation has its own ways of living and celebrating.
True
6 steps to listening better?
1. open mind
2. positive body language
3. asking questions
4. not interrupting
5. keeping emotions in check
6. restating the message
What factors make up our "parenting style"?
- Expectations of the child
- Rules and how they are enforced
-How the parent communicates/responds to the child
When using this communication strategy, we use “inviting phrases” to encourage children to say more.
Active Listening
What are the 3 ingredients to effective discipline?
Respect, Fairness, Consistency
True or False: Cultures all over the world share similar approaches for raising their children but their expectations are different.
False:
Corrected statement:
Cultures all over the world share similar expectations of their children but their approaches are different.
The way you use your body, gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, posture and tone of voice to convey a message.
Non-verbal communication