Bullying vs Teasing
True or False: Not all teasing is bad.
True. Sometimes it’s playful and helps kids bond. But sometimes it can be hurtful to others.
What does it mean to be a friend?
Being a friend to someone means you care about that person and you wouldn’t do anything to hurt that person, and they should have the same respect for you.
Name a feeling word that starts with A, V, and J.
:)
What is self-esteem?
Feeling mostly good about yourself.
Name 3 examples of impulsive behavior.
Do silly things to get attention
Have trouble following rules
Be aggressive toward other kids
Overreact to frustration, disappointment, mistakes, and criticism
Want to have the first turn and the last word
Not understand how their words or behavior affect other people
Not understand the consequences of their actions
What are 3 things about your personal information you don't share online?
Name, Address, Phone Number, School, Email, Photo, etc.
Teasing is a type of communication. What is the goal of bullying?
The goal is to embarrass the victim and make the bully look better and stronger.
True or False: Friendship is hard.
True, it takes work.
Name the 3 type of feelings categories.
pleasant, unpleasant, and neutral
What are thoughts kids with low self-esteem have?
don't think they are as good as others
don't feel liked or accepted
think more about the times they fail, than the times they do well
don't notice the good things about themselves
are hard on themselves and give up easily
Name 3 things to help you be less impulsive.
Name feelings, repeat directions, learn problem solving skills, learn anger management, engage in physical activity, play impulse control games, etc.
What are 3 ways to access the internet?
Phone, Tablet, Computer
What does Social Cues mean?
Social cues are signals people send through body language and expressions.
Many kids with social skills issues have trouble picking up on social cues.
When kids miss social cues, they can misunderstand people and situations.
What are 3 qualities your friends admire about you?
Good listener, playing fair, share feelings and needs, trust, accepting, etc.
Name 5 body warning signs when you are starting to get angry/anxious.
heart races, sweating, headache, shaking, pacing, red face, breathing hard, fists, yelling, etc.
How do you build/increase self-esteem?
Make a list of things you are good at.
Practice the things you do well.
Turn "I can't" into "I can".
Try your best.
Spend time with the people you love.
Pitch in.
What can you tell yourself to help you stop and think before you act?
:)
What are 3 dangers on the internet?
Dangerous/Inappropriate Websites, Malware/Spam, Online Frauds/Scams, Sexual predators
Name 3 types of verbal bullying.
Calling the victim names, taunting, and sexual harassment. It can happen in person, through texting, and online through social media and email .
Name 3 things you need to do to problem solve.
Daily Double
Listen, be assertive, understand, goal with both people in mind.
Name 5 coping skills to manage feelings.
deep breathing, walking, exercises, drawing, hobbies, listening to music, talking to someone, journaling, etc.
Self-esteem is important in what areas of your life?
children’s academic achievement, participation, engagement in activities, social relationships, and, ultimately, their sense of wellbeing.
What is Kleptomania?
People with this impulse control disorder may often steal things that have little personal or monetary value.
What is the percentage number for the first one?
30%
Kids who struggle in school, kids who get special services, kids who look different, kids who become easily aggressive or upset, kids who can't sit still, etc.
What is empathy and give an example.
Empathy is being able to know how someone else is feeling, even when you aren't in the same situation.
What is shame and guilt?
Owning your mistakes and inappropriate behavior, apologizing for them and stopping the behavior is the best way to reduce guilt. Shame is a message about the self esteem that hits in the pit of the stomach.
Name 3 things that will cause low self-esteem?
Too much Praise, Bullying, Overweight, school stress, negative feedback.
What is Pyromania?
People with this type of impulse control disorder deliberately start fires without regard to the destruction or injury their actions may cause.
Name 5 social media platforms.
Percentage of Teens Using Social Media Platforms
YouTube 85% Instagram 72% Snapchat 69% Facebook 51% Twitter 32% Tumblr 9% Reddit 7% None 3%