Love & Logic
This is the first skill of Love and Logic
What is neutralize arguing?
When your child refuses to follow directions, you do this first.
What is check for understanding and have them repeat the directions.
Giving your child a certain amount of time to complete a task.
What is setting limits?
1. Look at the person
2. Say ok
3. Do it right away
4. Check back
What is following directions?
Two hours or less a day of this is recommended
What is screen time?
I love you too much to argue and thanks for sharing, are examples of
What is a one-liner?
When your expectations at home remain the same
What is being consistent?
Threatening to punish your child several times and not doing so
What is not following through?
1. Look at the person
2. Say ok
3. Don't argue
What is accepting feedback?
In 2019, 53% of children had this
What is a smartphone?
Describes what we're willing to do or allow
What is an enforceable statement?
Directions that are easy to understand.
What is clear and concise?
When your homework is complete, you can do a preferred activity.
What is establishing clear rules for good behavior?
1. Look at the person
2. Say ok
3. Stay calm
4. If you disagree, ask later
What is accepting no for an answer?
With children's increase use of technology, this negative impact also increases
What is poor social interactions?
Providing choices within limits
What is sharing control?
Doing all of your chores
What is setting an obtainable goal?
Having your child do their homework daily.
What is helping your child do better in school?
1. Look at the task
2. Think about the steps needed to complete the task.
3. Focus all of your attention on the task.
4. Stop working only when instructed.
5. Ignore distractions and interruptions from others.
What is staying on task.
The amount of time before bed a child should be off of their devices
What is at least one hour?
Logical, provided with love, enforceable, use very few words
What are effective consequences?
Name the ABC's of Behavior
What is Antecedent, Behavior, and Consequence?
Doing this activity will increase your child's listening and comprehension skills while also building a strong bond.
What is reading with your child 20 minutes a day?
1. Keep your child out of your space when discussing personal matters.
2. Avoid personal conversations with others in the presence of your child.
3. Ask your child to move to another location.
4. Keep personal thoughts and feelings to yourself.
What is keeping your child out of your business?
Too much technology has a great impact on this
What is behavior?