Styles Of Parenting
How many styles of parenting is there?
3
Ingredients:
The speaker owns feeling with an "I" statements
Ask if the other has time to talk
is willing to negotiate with the listener.
chooses words carefully to create the effect he is seeking.
Effective communication
How to connect with your child?
Play, read, and have one on one talks with children.
On PIO how many love languages is there?
5
What is ER?
Emotional Regulations
Structure without choices.
Block Parenting.
The speaker blames and/or criticizes.
brings up the past.
views listener as the enemy
is inflexible.
Ineffective communication.
Being in prison what are other ways to connect with your child?
Letters, calls, visits
What are the 5 love languages?
1. gifts
2. time together
3. compliments
4. doings favors
5. warm, non-sexual touches.
Putty
choices without structure.
How to use problem solving skills?
1. write a goal statement
2. Brainstorm possible solutions
3. Consider Pros and cons of solution
4. make a plan
5. commit to the plan
6. give the plan a try.
5 steps
2 hours
What does PIO Stand for?
Parenting Inside Out
choices within structure.
backbone
How many problems solving skills are there?
6
what is emotional coaching?
it helps your child learn how to identify, label and manage their emotions.
what is the parents job?
Whos the best NFL team
Dallas Cowboys
what roadway signs should be on the road of "destination adulthood"?
vision this way
our familys values
family traditions
communication skills
problem solving
Why is it important to have effective communication skills?
Be able to coparent or communicate with child's caregiver.
what are the 5 steps of emotional coaching?
1. Tune in to your childs emotions
2. Recognize your childs emotions as an opportunity to bond with him.
3. show empathy by acknowledging emotions
4. help the child verbally name the emotions
5. set limits on behavior while helping the child to problem solve.
ready to be active?
Dance like a chicken
whos the best counselor
Cristal