Big Deal vs Little Deal
Taking Someone Else's Perspective
Negotiation and Compromise Role Play
What a flexible vs rigid thinker might say
Questions vs Comments
100

We have to go to online learning. Again!

Little Deal

100

To take someone else's perspective means:

-To consider something from someone else’s point of view 

- To pretend you are the other person and understand why they are feeling about something the way they are feeling 

Name an idiom that you use in Ms. Bacon's class that means the same thing


-To look at something through someone else’s eyes 

- To put yourself in someone else’s shoes 


100

You want to have a puppy, but your sister wants a kitten.

Warning: No points if you say " we can have both"

Role play to negotiate and come up with a compromise

100

I am able to go with the flow

Flexible Thinker 

100

Is this a question or a comment:

I like Spider Man

Comment

200

We have to wear masks for another 6 months.

Little Deal

200

These are questions to ask yourself:

-What does the other person see/know?

- How would I feel if I were this person?

Situation: Ms. Bacon asked you to work on your assignment but you started talking to your friend instead. What might Ms. Bacon be thinking and feeling?


After the team responds, let's ask Ms. Bacon if they correctly put themselves in her shoes.

200

You want pepperoni pizza but your brother wants cheese pizza.


Role play to negotiate and come up with a compromise

200

I can think of more than one way to solve a problem

Flexible Thinker

200

Is this a question or a comment:

Will you show me how to do that

Question

300

Your team gets the wrong answer playing Jeopardy

Little Deal

300

These are questions to ask yourself:

-What does the other person see/know?

- How would I feel if I were this person?

Roxanne is excited that she gets to leave work in 5-minutes but her boss asks her to stay and work for another hour. What might Roxanne be thinking and feeling?

Team will put themselves in Roxanne's shoes and answer.

Check with Roxanne to see if it's accurate.

300

You want to watch a romantic comedy but your friend wants to watch an action movie.

No points if you say "We can watch both"

Role play to negotiate and come up with a compromise

300

I lose control when things change.

Rigid Thinker

300

Is this a question or a comment:

How long is this going to last

Question

400

You have to move to a new city and go to a new school.

Big Deal

400

These are questions to ask yourself:

-What does the other person see/know?

- How would I feel if I were this person?

Taryn and Olivia want to hang out together on a Friday night. Taryn wants to watch a movie but Olivia wants to draw dolphins.What are Taryn and Olivia thinking and feeling?

Team puts themselves in Taryn's and Olivia's shoes.

Check with Taryn and Olivia to see if they're accurate.

400

Your mom says it’s bedtime, but you want to stay up one more hour.

Role play to negotiate and come up with a compromise.

400

I would prefer to be at school with my friends but I can deal with the change to going online when I need to.

Flexible Thinker

400

Is this a question or a comment:

I like P.E.

Comment

500

A hurricane, or tornado, or earthquake, or fire, or blizzard.

Big Deal

500

These are questions to ask yourself:

-What does the other person see/know?

- How would I feel if I were this person?

Ms. Bacon asks Jasmine to sing a song at the beginning of class. What might Jasmine be thinking and feeling?

Team will put themselves in Jasmine's shoes to answer the question.

Check in with Jasmine to see if it's accurate.

500

You want to paint your living room yellow but your roommate wants to paint it blue.

Role play to negotiate and come up with a compromise.

500

If you don't do it my way, I'll yell and push things off the table!

Rigid Thinker

500

Is this a question or a comment:

Why is your hair purple

Question