Conflict or Not?
Two students want the same seat. Conflict or Not?
Conflict
What do all I-statements start with?
“I feel…”
What’s the first step in solving a problem?
Calm down
What is an upstander?
Someone who takes action to help
Someone bumps you and says “my bad.” Conflict or Not?
Not conflict
Which one is an I-statement?
A. “You never listen to me.”
B. “I feel frustrated when I get interrupted.”
C. “Why are you like that?”
D. “Stop talking over me.”
B. “I feel frustrated when I get interrupted.”
What does “identify the problem” mean?
Figure out what the real issue is
What is a bystander?
Someone who watches and stays silent
Someone keeps making jokes about your clothes every day.
Bullying
Fix this: “You make me angry when you talk.”
“I feel angry when I’m interrupted.”
What is brainstorming?
Thinking of multiple possible solutions.
Which is an example of being an upstander?
Checking on someone who’s being targeted
Your friend disagrees with your idea for a project.
Conflict
Why do I-statements help with conflict?
They express feelings without blaming.
What makes a solution “good”?
It’s fair, respectful, and safe
What’s a safe way to be an upstander?
Getting an adult or teacher
Someone posts something rude about you online (one time)
Conflict (not bullying unless repeated)
Fill in the blank: I feel __ when __.
Any emotion + specific situation
What’s the LAST step in problem-solving?
Reflect on how it went
Why do people stay silent sometimes?
They’re scared, confused, or don’t know what to do