Tiers of Friendship
- people you met in passing
- friends of friends
-little knowledge about them
- will say hello too
Acquaintances
Someone who only wants to talk about themselves.
Hint: 1st word starts with C, 2nd word starts with N.
Conversational Narcissist
Not letting someone hang out with friends OR do hobbies they enjoy
Controlling Behavior
Description of what you might be doing:
- Tunning into the bits that interest/impact you
- Not appreciating the overall message/intention
Selective Listening
The tendency to listen more often too into that confirms our existing beliefs
- being in an "echo chamber"
- disregarding information that challenges your own position
Hint: The C________ Bias
The Confirmation Bias
- spend time with regularly
- people you really click with
- overlapping interest, common beliefs/values, put effort into relationship
Close Friends
Someone who is always right, runs other people over.
Hint: military vehicle
A Tank
Making fun of someone's hobbies or interest, putting someone down.
Criticizing / Disrespect / Bullying
Description of what you might be doing:
- Not really listening
- Waiting for your turn to speak
- Already knowing how you're going to respond
Ignoring the Speaker
The tendency to be overly influenced by the 1st piece of information that we hear.
Hint: The A______ Bias
The Anchoring Bias
- people you can completely be yourself with
- you trust each other enough to share personal stories, thoughts and feelings
Best/Good Friends
Someone who controls everything.
Hint: You can wear this...
Straight jacket
Acting like something didn't happen or that it is no big deal.
Manipulating others into doubting their own thoughts and feelings.
Gaslighting
Description of what you might be doing:
- Showing signs of listening, but you're not really tuned in
- Not able to play back everything the other person said
Pretending to Listen
The tendency to see events, even random ones, as more predictable than they are
- "I knew it all along"
Hint: The H_______ Bias
The Hindsight Bias
People who you spend time with because life throws you together.
Community Friends
Something is always wrong; they want empathy and support NOT advice
Hint: ______ queen.
Drama magnet
Giving someone excessive attention or affection with the goal of controlling/influencing them.
Love Bombing
Description of what you might be doing:
- Listening carefully to understand the emotions and real meaning of the message
- seeking to understand, rather than to be understood
Empathetic Listening
The tendency for memories to be heavily influenced by things that happened after the actual event itself.
New information may get blended with older memories OR be sued to fill in "gaps" in memory.
Hint: The M__________ Effect
The Misinformation Effect
- people you were once close to, but you have lost touch with them
- you might have spent a lot of time together, but didn't continue friendship/grew apart
Former Friends
Someone who usually has so much internal self-hate, it projects
Hint: 2 words that start with the letter J.
JJ (Jealous, Judgement)
Failing to show support for their milestones/achievements
Ignoring someone's interest in favor of their own
Ignoring Emotional Needs
Description of what you might be doing:
- Focused on the speaker
- Taking in what they are saying
- Not interrupting
- Asking follow up questions
Attentive Listening
The tendency to judge others for their failures BUT give excuses to ourselves or people we like.
Hint: The A___-O______ Bias
The Actor-Observer Bias