Trading information
The reason we trade information with someone
______________ others is annoying and will make you look like a know it all. Don’t criticize or point out other people’s mistakes.
What is POLICING others in conversations?
You hold a ________ when you are about watching the conversation you want to join.
What is a PROP?
The percentage of times any person will be rejected from a conversation.
(Remember not being accepted into a conversation is not always because you didn't follow the steps correctly there are lots of reasons you might not be accepted into a conversation)
What is the 2 message rule?
The person in a conversation that asks question after question with out answering any of their own questions
An interviewer - Don't be one!
When you ___________, it shows that you are interested in your friend. If you ask a question, you need to _________ to the answer.
(You’re supposed to remember the answer once you have asked the question and you should not ask the same question again.)
What is LISTEN?
TRUE or FALSE
You should walk up and introduce yourself as a way to enter a conversation
What is False?
You should follow the steps for entering a conversation and look for signs you are accepted
The first step to leaving a conversation you are not accepted into
What is KEEP YOUR COOL?
Two ways you can tell what social group a person is in
What is their interests and they're hair/clothing choices
The animal you should NOT be in a conversation
What is a CONVERSATION HOG?
____________ can end a conversation quickly. This is especially true when we are getting to know someone. ____________________ is more acceptable in conversation when you have a close relationship with the person you are talking too.
What is TEASING?
Before trying to enter a conversation you should identify the __________________.
What is the common interest you have with this group?
Also accepted - conversation topic
When exiting a conversation you should
______ away
______ away
______ away in the same direction
What is
LOOK
TURN
WALK ?
A believable reason for starting or ending conversation
Something you should NOT do if you are just getting to know someone?
What is ask questions that are too personal?
Humor can end a conversation quickly. When you are first getting to know a person, its a good idea to be ______________ at first.
What is SERIOUS?
The thing you are waiting for so that you can verbally enter the conversation
What is a PAUSE?
Remember there is never a perfect pause :)
Two reasons for rejection from a conversation (even if you followed all the steps to enter the conversation correctly)
what is
They want to talk privately
They only have a short time together and need to talk about something you aren't involved in
They are in a clique and not looking to make new friends
They are stuck up/rude
Friendship is a __________________
what is CHOICE?
Something people almost always like to talk about
What is THEMSELVES
3 things that you need to find a "sweet spot" for in conversation.
(Hint not too much, not too little)
What is EYE CONTACT, VOICE VOLUME, BODY BOUNDRIES
In the conversation you entered they are looking at you, talking to you, and facing you. You have been ______________ into the conversation.
What is accepted?
Three reasons to exit a conversation
What is...
You were never accepted
You were initially accepted then rejected
You were fully accepted but needed to leave the setting where the conversation is
By the end of PEERS, who are you tired of seeing in the video examples?
what is ELAINA!!
(Remeber dont be an Elaina!!)