Sharing information about yourself and listening to your peer share, finding mutual interests.
Allowing the other person to disagree and have a different opinion.
What is not being argumentative/don't argue
Distracted, looking at your phone, or looking away from the person who is speaking.
What is bad eye contact or not maintaining enough attentiveness?
Making fun of, being mean, or rude.
What is teasing?
Distraction Item
Using an object like being on your phone or book to put away near the conversation you would like to enter.
Feeling like you can rely on the other person, leaning on them for help.
What is loyalty?
Participating in the conversation but also giving the other person space to talk.
What is sharing the conversation?
Looking intensely at the person who is speaking, never breaking away from looking at the other person even when they are visibly uncomfortable.
What is bad eye contact or maintaining too much attention?
Only giving yourself space to talk and not allowing the other person to engage in the conversation.
What is being a conversation hog?
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Barging into convo
Entering a conversation without a related topic or easy entrance
Feeling like you can be yourself around this person.
What is feeling comfortable?
Not starring intensely but also showing interest in the conversation, being sure to not look at other distractions.
What is maintaining good eye contact?
In someone's personal space.
What is bad body boundaries or being too close?
Sharing very personal information very early into the conversation.
What is, don't get too personal too fast.
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Sharing information in the discussion on a topic being discussed that you enjoy.