Clarity
Who are we responsible to?
Others
What is our most basic boundary?
Our Skin
Who says "yes" to bad?
Compliance
Boundaries aren't inherited, they are ________.
Built
Name 2 of 10 things that we said are within our boundaries?
Our Feelings, Attitudes & Beliefs, Behaviors, Choices, Values, Limits, Talents, Thoughts, Desires, and Love
Who are we responsible for?
Ourselves
What boundary word helps us most with boundaries
No
Who says "no" to good?
Avoidance
When is it best for us to learn boundaries?
As a child
How do boundaries define us?
What is me and what is not me.
What do we call things each person is responsible for doing themselves?
Backpacks or Knapsacks
What to boundaries include distance?
Geographical Distance and Emotional Distance
What type of Controller is often abusive?
Aggressive Controllers
What is the emotion that helps us when we are developing boundaries?
Anger
What are boundaries like?
Fences or Fences with Gates
What do we call things we can't carry alone?
Boulders
What type of boundary should be receive when they over-step your boundaries?
Consequences
Who likes seduce or guilt others?
Manipulative Controllers
At what stage do some people get stuck?
Practicing: I can do anything
What does emotion distance help with?
Gives your heart a safe space to heal.
What is the #1 things boundaries do for us?
Keep good in and bad out
Name the 4 of the 6 boundary types
Skin, Words, Geographical Distance, Time, Emotional Distance, Consequences
Who doesn't hear the needs of others?
Non-responsive
What tool is sometimes misunderstood as a selfish-stage?
Ownership
What type of person seduces others and uses guilt messages?
Manipulative Controllers