Boundaries and Friendships
What is it called when you are in someone's space?
invading
If I told someone they hurt my feelings but they do not apologize/stop hurting my feelings, I can...
walk away, ignore the person, tell someone I trust, etc.
Name the boundary level in which a person has very firm boundaries, but you do not let anyone into your space.
Firm/ Rigid/ not changing
Name the character that has non-existent/loose boundaries in the "Finding Nemo" video clip.
Who is Dory
When you are better able to communicate with others and have better more fulfilling relationships, is this considered healthy or unhealthy boundaries?
What is healthy boundaries
Name the type of boundary that allows you to have your own friends and to pursue your own social activities, as others are also allowed to pursue their own social activities.
What is social worth and boundaries
In setting boundaries, what is it called when you clearly define what your intellectual, emotional, physical, and spiritual boundaries are with strangers, teammates, friends, family, and peers?
Hint: you may feel angry when they go past this
What is know your limits
What makes a good friend?
kind, caring, loving etc
Name the character that has rigid boundaries in the "Coco" video clip.
Who is Abuelita
When a person is going against their personal values or rights in order to please others, is this considered healthy or unhealthy boundaries?
What is unhealthy boundaries
Name the type of boundary that allows you to have your own feelings to a given situation as others are also allowed to have their own feelings in a given situation.
What is emotional worth and boundaries
What is nonverbal communication? Show it
Expressing how you feel without words
Name the boundary level in which a person will let anyone in and out of their space, and do not have strong boundaries at all.
What is non-existent or limited boundaries
Name the character that has healthy/rigid boundaries in the "Finding Nemo" video clip.
Who is Marlin
What if your friend has something on their shirt that you would like to help them get off, how do you help them?
You can let them know what is on their shirt so they can pick it off themselves or they can ask a staff member for help
the ability to understand and share the feelings of another is...?
Empathy
Mindfulness helps us focus on the past, the present, or the future?
Name the boundary level in which a person is able to let close people into their space, but also able to enforce their boundaries to keep strangers and others further away until they know them better.
What is healthy boundaries
Name the boundary level that Miguel has in the "Coco" video clip.
What is non-existent or loose boundaries
What are three zones of personal space?
Me
Family
Friends
Outside Support
Strangers
Name the type of boundary in which you are allowed to have your space, as others are also allowed to have their space.
personal space
Is the following statement an example of a fixed mindset or a growth mindset?
"I can't shoot a three pointer... yet."
Growth
How many times should a friend have to ask you to stop touching them/move back?
They shouldn't have to ask at all but if they do it should take on time for you to move away and stop touching them
What boundary level does Bruce have in the "Finding Nemo" video clip?
What is non-existent or loose or healthy boundaries
What are two other types of boundaries discussed yesterday that don't involve touching someone?
Talking when someone else is talking
Safety
Public distance
etc.