Friendship
What is it called when you politely congratulate or praise someone for something?
A compliment
What color does yellow represent?
Anxious, nervous, excited
Why do people choose the job that they do?
Interested in it, money, schedule, family tradition, etc.
What does the word empathy mean?
The ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
What is a bystander?
A bystander is someone that watches the bullying, but doesn't try to help in the situation.
What is one thing you can do if someone isn't being nice to your friend?
2. Helping your friend leave the situation
3. Finding an adult
4. Etc.
In what color zone are you your best self?
Green
DOUBLE JEOPARDY
What job/career most interests you right now?
Basketball player, etc.
Have a volunteer on your team stand up and do a silly dance for 10 seconds
Did you do it?
What are two things you can do to be an upstander?
1. Stand up to the bully and tell them what they are doing is wrong
2. Tell a nearby and trusted adult.
3. Etc.
Name one way you can work out a conflict with a friend?
1. Take time to cool off. 2. Think about the person as a person. 3. Try to understand what the other person is saying. 5. Find something you can agree on. 6. Be specific when you work through a problem. 7. Never assume. 8. Forget the past and stay with the present.
DOUBLE JEOPARDY:
What is your favorite way to get you from the red zone to the green zone?
Taking deep breaths, playing basketball, etc.
What is the difference between a job and a career?
A job is usually short-term and not something you can develop.
A career spans the course of your life and is something you can get better at and grow in.
What does the phrase "put yourself in someone else's shoes" mean?
To imagine oneself in the situation or circumstances of another person, so as to understand or empathize with their perspective, opinion, or point of view
What are the four roles in a bullying situation?
Victim, bystander, upstander, bully
DOUBLE JEOPARDY:
Tell us one thing a friend in class can do well.
Example: Johnny is good at soccer.
Name all four colors of the zones of regulation and give one feeling for each zone
Green - Happy etc.
Red - Angry etc.
Blue - Sad etc
Yellow - Nervous
What does a traditional career mean?
You’ve been best friends with Sam since kindergarten. Since the start of school this year, you’ve become good friends with Taylor, too. But Sam told you yesterday that she’s not going to be friends with Taylor anymore and neither should you. Now Taylor is sitting alone in the cafeteria, looking really sad. What can you do to help?
Helpful example
DOUBLE JEOPARDY:
What's the difference between teasing and bullying
Teasing can be done by friends and usually stops if you tell the other person how you are feeling.
Bullying is done consistently (even after they talk with an adult) to purposefully harm someone with words or actions.
Demonstrate an "I feel" statement for if your friends don't let you play with them at recess.
Example: I feel excluded when you do not let me play with you because you are my friend, so I would like to play with you please.
Why does excited sometimes fall in the yellow zone?
Sometimes we get so excited that we lose control of what we say or do.
What was the name of the psychologist who came up with the six personality types?
John Holland
DOUBLE JEOPARDY:
If you could give a "Most Empathic Person of the Year Award" at Pine Road to one person, who would it be and why?
Example
Your best friend, Dan, has started to pick on Peter, a quiet kid in your class. You thought it was funny in the beginning, but now Dan’s getting meaner and meaner.
Peter tries to stay away from Dan during the day, but Dan just picks on him more. Peter is becoming more and more upset. Other kids in the class still think it’s funny. What should you do?
Be an upstander example