Home Rules
4 important rules to follow in the home are:
CalmBody
U se your words
Respect others time and personal space
Ensure you keep good hygiene all the time
Let's practice respecting other's time and personal space:
Ashley will leave her drink/personal item on the paino, when she is ready to leave, she will grab it herself and put it in her bag. Remember, give others personal space and do not touch or put things in their bag. It is only Ashley's responsibility to do this.
Why is it important to respect others personal belongings?
I need to be respectful of others actions, personal space, room, and items because they are not my actions/space or items. This means I am not responsible for them and should give others an opportunity to take care of their things
who is in charge of reminding Eric to eat his lunch?
Eric is in charge. He can take breaks, return back to eat dinner.
I need to remember to worry only about myself. If Eric needs help or reminders, MOM will be in charge of reminding him. I can talk to mom directly.
Eric has trumpet class on Saturday, who is responsible to remind him of his class?
Eric
Evan is responsible for what kind of things at home? Identify all 3
a.) getting a good note at school
b.) sleeping on time when mom tells me to sleep at 10:30 p.m.
c.) getting a good note and following all rules with In stepps, Kadiant, and Irvine High
d.) reminding Eric and dad to finish all of their work, sleep on time, and go into their rooms
e.) reminding mom to go to sleep because she listens to me
You see Ashley cleaning after session, but she hasn't cleaned her backpack yet, what do you do?
Remind Ashley to clean up her backpack
Put the items inside her backpack
or something else?
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WAIT for Ashley to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away
When I feel upset, and I say "Dad I am feeling angry because Eric is watching T.V." this means I am:
Choose the best answer:
a.) watching what Eric is doing because it's my responsibility
b.)using my words and following house rules
c.) not following the rules
Eric is playing video games late at night, he hasn't gone to sleep and his light is on? Is it okay to check in on him?
No, Evan should be in his room in bed asleep already not walking around the home or looking to see what others are doing. Mom and dad will take care of it!
Evan needs to go to sleep at 10:45 p.m., it's 10:47 p.m. who is responsible for reminding him?
Evan /mom
a.) charge her computer she needs help
b.) charge her computer she will lose her data
c.) wait until Ashley comes back she knows what to do
REMEMBER only touch EVAN's item not others.
Angel is eating a CARL's JR hamburger and left the wrapper on the couch. He went outside to get his bag from his car. What should you do with the hamburger wrapper?
a.) throw it away you can help Angel
b.) take the trash to Angel
c.) leave it, Angel will take care of it when he is ready
WAIT for Angel to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away
Dad is watching T.V. downstairs he says "Evan I am going to watch the football game it will take 2 hours" what can you do to keep yourself busy?
Wait for dad to finish watching T.V., I can go to the guest room, go upstairs to my room, play with my iPad, or use my phone
Eric is in charge of his schedule, dinner time, sleeping time, bath time, and play time. This means only ERIC is responsible for HIS things. Is ERIC responsible to tell you about your sleeping schedule?
no, Eric can focus on his schedule and Evan should focus on his schedule only
MYSTERY SURPRISE
Great job answering the questions! You get some M&M's! Remind mom to give them to you!
When should you use the bathroom in the morning when you use the bus for school?
a.) wait until the bus comes and then go to the bathroom
b.) use the bathroom before the bus comes, it's not polite to make the bus wait, always go before and not during
c.) wait and go in school
d.) tell the bus driver "I need to go to the bathroom" wait for me
Nancy and mom are having a meeting upstairs, what should you be doing during this time?
Having session with Maria
REMEMBER: Give mom and Nancy space, do not interrupt
MYSTERY SURPISE
You earned 3 extra BREAK MINUTES GIVE YOURSELF 3 MINUTES ON YOUR CHART! :)
Eris throws a paper at you after you tell him to turn off the T.V., What should you do?
Leave the room immediately and talk to mom. Fighting or throwing will only get you in trouble. This is not the best choice to make.
Eric left the dinner table, he is not done eating and is on his phone, who can remind him to finish eating?
Only Eric / mom/dad
I am responsible for my school schedule, IN STEPPS schedule, Kadiant schedule and I check in with who?
mom, dad, Nancy, Melissa, Ashley, Isidro, Maria (they all help me make sure I am on the right track)
Eric comes home from school and leaves his backpack in the dining table, what should you do?
move his backpack
move his backpack and take it upstairs
talk to Eric
or something else?
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WAIT for Eric to take care of her things, it is not my responsibility and I need to walk away, I can talk to mom and ask her
Tell me why it's important to follow home rules with everyone (e.g., Eric, mom, dad, house guests)
It is important to follow home rules because I need to remember to do the right thing with others. Doing the right thing includes keeping a calm body, using my words, giving others privacy, and finishing MY work only. Following the rules keeps everyone safe, happy, and creates structure
Tell me what you should if Eric is watching T.V. all night and doesn't go to bed (2 things)
1.
2.
1. Wait in my room, this is not related to me
2. Talk to mom (Mom can you remind Eric to go to sleep soon, "mom when is Eric going to sleep")
Evan is going to Costco with Ashley, and Ashley forgot her costco card. Dad tells Evan to push the cart. Who is responsible for getting Ashley's costco card? Who is responsible for pushing the cart?
Ashley= costco card
Evan= pushing the cart
Tell me if this is A RIGHT CHOICE to do or BAD CHOICE?
Evan puts the coupons inside Ashley's bag
Evan grabs Ashley's charge and puts it in her bag
Evan grabs Nancy's shoes and tells her "put them on"
Evan looks inside Ashley's car and says "what's in your car?
Each correct point gives you 1 extra M&M! whooo!
Session has finished, tell me what you have to do?
1. Wait for Ashley to clean her items/bag
2. Only remind Ashley 1 time
3. Leaving the area and giving Ashley some space and time to finish
Let's practice! If you complete all 3 congratulations you earned some extra candy!
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