Conflict
A disagreement or argument between people
What is a conflict
Asking what is the problem is the first step
What is...finding a solution?
Taunting
What is... trying to escalate someone by teasing them?
Calling out can be...
What is......disruptive!
Win-win
Craig and his sister are constantly arguing because he wants a dog and his sister Millie wants a cat. Mom and dad won't get a pet until they compromise and work it out together.
Bonus: What are some ways they could compromise to make it fair?
At least two
How many people does it take to have a conflict
Brainstorm solutions
Thinking up ideas to solve a problem?
Empathy
"How would you feel if someone did that to you?" is an example of what?
Lose Lose
John is playing on his iPad and Dan snatches it away from him. John screams and slaps Dan. Because the teacher only saw this part, John got in trouble and Dan got to play on the iPad.
Physical and Verbal
What are the two types of conflict
Choose the best solution
You are tempted to yell at a classmate to get them to stop making noises in class but don't want to lose behavior points
Tattling
What is...telling on someone because you want to see them get into trouble?
Make a sign, Make a signal, Have them write it down or Explain how it makes others feel when you shout out
What is...helping someone learn the class rules.
Lose Lose
Jacob and Rachel run to the swingset at recess. There is only one left. They start fighting and pushing each other and end up having to stand by the wall in time out.
Escalating
What is it called when someone is making the problem worse?
Jane accidentally bumped into Sally in art and Sally's paintbrush touched her new outfit, leaving a stain. Instead of first yelling at Jane, Sally said to herself, "What am I really feeling?" and decided that she felt sad that her new outfit was ruined. Which would help more?.......yelling at Sally or talking about how Jane is feeling?
Finding a way for both people to get what they want, or meeting in the middle so both people are satisfied
What is... compromising.
Win Lose
You win the game but then brag about it so your friends go home
De-escalating
What is it called when someone is taking the steps to make the problem better?
Rock paper scissors Oldest to youngest Flip a coin Eeenie meenie miney moe Shortest to tallest Pick a number Take turns
Name three ways to "choose the best solution" when people want different things
WELL DONE!
Ready?! Set? ACTION! (Act it out!) Give an example of a problem. Now give an example of a solution.
You lose the game but offer friends "good game" and congratulate them!
What is an example of a win-win.